Become Your Own best Friend and Live the Life of Love and Happiness

Most of us have a tendency to do things that are self-destructive in nature, yet we are mostly not even aware about them. It can take a lot of practice and self-observation to become your own best friend, but it is something every human being should strive to achieve as being the enemy to yourself is the only reason why we ever feel unloved or unhappy. All self-destructive tendencies occur in our sub consciousness and then manifest as our thoughts that are destructive in nature. We are then unconsciously led to bad society, bad behavioral patterns and harmful activities. To be your own best friend means to filter through your own negative thoughts about yourself or others and change them into such thoughts that you truly wish to think. The kinds of thoughts that make you feel happy and loved. It is our thoughts that are responsible for all our feelings and situations that we come across. Only we are the enemy to ourselves and no one else. Observe how you think and feel about yourself and see if that truly is the image that you want to see, or is it something you think you should be due to the stimulus of the society, parents and media. Listen to your deepest desires and feelings and let them manifest through your mind so that you can feel what your inner being wishes to express. Never be afraid of yourself and never be afraid to express any kinds of feelings including anger or sorrow. Every emotion that wishes to manifest should be let to the surface or it will start gathering at the bottom and cause irrational fears, anxiety or even depression. To be your own best friend means to accept yourself fully exactly the way you are right now at that exact moment both physically and psychologically. Putting yourself down because you feel that you are not something you should be is detrimental to your happiness and is only the result of our programed habitual thinking that we learned from our parents and society. We are always perfect and the only imperfections that arise in us are our own thoughts - thoughts that are centered on the unwanted instead of the wanted. No amount of negative thinking will ever help you become someone you truly want to become. Be the best friend to yourself and love yourself before loving anyone else. Be completely selfish when it comes to your happiness and realize that you can never give anything to anyone if you don’t have it first. So learn to love yourself and guide your thoughts in the direction that makes you truly happy. Soon you will realize that the better you think of yourself, the better others think of you and the better others feel in your presence. This is the simplest truth there is, and no amount of effort to change the world around us will ever help us become a better friend to ourselves. If we want to feel happy we can only look into ourselves and make the inner space the most beautiful there is. Look in the mirror and see the most beautiful woman/man there is. If your mind resists thinking nice about the image it sees, know that it is not the image that isn’t beautiful but the sub conscious projection of the mind, which learned the thinking patterns from their parents and/or friends. There is only one that can love us completely, and only one that can to do us any kind of harm. It is ourselves. Observe your mind as much as you can and you will see that for yourself.