How To Approach & Pick Up Girls - The Mack Tactics Seduction Strategy

Whether you like hanging out in bars or not, there's no question that they're one of the best places to pick up girls. Picking up girls in bars can be fun and easy if you know how to approach them the right way. You need to stand out and make yourself more noticeable than other guys. A lot of other guys want to learn how to pick up girls at a bar, and you can stay ahead of your competition by making yourself more appealing. So right now, let me share with you some general tips to help you pick up girls in bars, clubs and other nightlife environments: 1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You certainly don't need to be tall and well-built to attract women, but you absolutely must be clean, well-dressed and most importantly well-groomed. First impressions are important, after all. Wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, etc. Also, your scent should be attractive; this means get rid of the cheap cologne and start wearing the good stuff (I like Calvin Klein and Bulgari, personally).. 2. You need to act confident if you want to be noticed. If you are naturally a shy, nervous guy, you'll need to fake this confidence until you start achieving some success (which is how you develop REAL confidence with women). Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. Also keep in mind that most of the other guys in the bar are just as nervous as you -- if not more so -- when it comes to approaching girls and trying to start a conversation. Those who at least try to fake their confidence will be able to pick up girls at bars better than those who let their nervousness get the best of them. 3. You're going to have to learn how to approach women if you're going to successfully pick up girls when you go out. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Don't only try to target women who are alone; usually, women go out in groups, and approaching groups of women is not big deal when you've got some solid techniques. Smile, deliver your opener, and then transition into your first topic of conversation (when you use "Mack Tactics," the process should be a seamless flow). If she doesn't seem interested, don't bug her. And stop worrying about being "rejected," would you? Tell yourself that there are two types of women in this bar tonight: FUN and BORING. The fun girls will want to talk to you, because you're a fun guy; the boring girls won't want to, but they're boring anyway so who cares. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. And when approaching girls who are in a group, be equally charming to all of them. Even if there's only one you're interested in, you should still be nice to her friends. 4. My next piece of advice: stay positive during the conversation. She should associate you with FUN and POSITIVITY, not negativity or boring/depressing topics (such as talking to her about your exes, breakups, etc. Remember, she didn't spend two hours earlier tonight doing her hair and makeup, and selecting her outfit, so that she could out to a bar and be be bored and depressed. She came here tonight to have fun. If you can provide her with that, she'll want to hang out with you. 5. When your mission is to pick up girls, you can't be overly loud or aggressive (especially towards other guys, even if you view them as "the competition". It's cool to enjoy yourself and be energetic, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But when it comes to picking up girls in bars, you shouldn't let yourself become too drunk. 6. Observe and pay attention to the environment at all times. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. When you identify a target (a girl you want to approach), don't rush in and approach the girl right away; spend a few minutes observing her and her body language. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. It's better to plan your moves carefully before approaching a woman than to go right up to her as soon as you see her. Picking up girls requires some patience on your part. The next time you go out to have some fun and pick up girls, keep these principles in mind. If you want to learn a ton of great FREE openers to use on women, download the free Mack Tactics guide by clicking here: Mack Tactics Free Book - How To Pick Up Girls