How To Approach & Pick Up Women The Confident And Easy Way

Bars are some of the best environments to pick up women. Of course, meeting women begins with knowing how to make a confident approach and "open" her in a clever way. You need to stand out and make yourself more noticeable than other guys. A lot of other guys want to learn how to approach girls at a bar, and you can stay ahead of your competition by making yourself more appealing. With that said, here are some tips on how to pick up girls at bars: 1. Don't leave home until you're feeling totally confident about your appearance. You don't have to be an Adonis to get girls' attention, but you still need to look presentable. First impressions are important, after all. Wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, etc. Also, your scent should be attractive; this means get rid of the cheap cologne and start wearing the good stuff (I like Calvin Klein and Bulgari, personally).. 2. You need to act confident if you want to be noticed. If you are naturally a shy, nervous guy, you'll need to fake this confidence until you start achieving some success (which is how you develop REAL confidence with women). Body language is extremely important; don't slouch, and keep your head held high. Make eye contact with women. Don't only try to interact with the hot girls you want to hook up with; start friendly interactions with other women as you "warm up" and get a feel for the crowd. A lot of other guys in the bar will probably be nervous too, although some are better than hiding it than others. Those who at least try to fake their confidence will be able to approach hot girls at bars better than those who let their nervousness get the best of them. 3. Picking up girls at bars means you might have to approach them. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Women usually go to bars with their friends, so don't be intimidated about approaching a group of women and engaging them in a conversation. Smile, deliver your opener, and then transition into your first topic of conversation (when you use "Mack Tactics," the process should be a seamless flow). If she doesn't seem interested, don't bug her. Don't worry about being turned down. When you're out at bars to pick up girls, this attitude is important to have. If you want to approach a group of girls, treat them all nicely. Even if there's only one you're interested in, you should still be nice to her friends. 4. Next, when you approach a girl and start a conversation your tone of voice -- and the topics you discuss -- should be positive. She should associate you with FUN and POSITIVITY, not negativity or boring/depressing topics (such as talking to her about your exes, breakups, etc. Remember, she didn't spend two hours earlier tonight doing her hair and makeup, and selecting her outfit, so that she could out to a bar and be be bored and depressed. She came here tonight to have fun. If you can provide her with that, she'll want to hang out with you. 5. When your mission is to pick up girls, you can't be overly loud or aggressive (especially towards other guys, even if you view them as "the competition". Go ahead and have fun, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). I know that for a lot of guys, imbibing some "liquid courage" helps them to loosen up and feel more comfortable when picking up women. But when it comes to picking up girls in bars, you shouldn't let yourself become too drunk. 6. Observe, observe, observe. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. So, slow down your pace and don't worry about "making your move" the moment you see an attractive girl. Think like a chess-player and always have your next several moves plotted out in your mind. Picking up girls requires some patience on your part. The next time you go out to have some fun and pick up girls, keep these principles in mind. Now, if you're ready to learn the EXACT openers that I use to "break the ice" with hot girls and start conversations, click here and download this free guide: How To Approach Beautiful Girls - Mack Tactics Free Book