Loving Yourself

LOVING YOURSELF Loving Yourself is the single most important principle in the creation process. If you don’t love yourself, you won’t decide to give yourself the things you think you want, you won’t think you deserve them, and you certainly won’t have the energy to take action to create them. Period.rnWhen we were born, most of us were the center of the Universe. Everything revolved around us and our welfare. And then around two, socialization took over and familial and societal rules demanded the giving up of Self: share the toy you want, don’t ask for what you want, don’t want. Good little girls and boys didn’t do those things. Now we’re adults screaming, “Why can’t I create what I want?”rnIt’s time to reclaim that little person inside that knew they were good enough, smart enough, brave enough, and special enough to ask for, and get, what they wanted. It’s been so long that most of us have lost the art of even knowing how to ask for what we want.rnIn my seminars, when I ask for people to state the above, I get responses like, “I don’t want to worry about money anymore,” and “I don’t want to be alone,” or “I don’t want this sickness.” Nobody says what they want!! They tell me what they want by stating what they DON’T want. That is like a director saying to me, “Dee, don’t give me laughter. Don’t give me a smile. Don’t give me timing,” when he is directing me in a serious drama. It doesn’t tell me what he wants: it doesn’t give me clear direction. That is what most of us are doing with the Universe, and the Universe is replying, “I don’t understand the direction. I can’t deliver the performance!”rnI say we all give ourselves permission to love ourselves enough to give us — and the Creative Force — a very clear statement of desire for manifestation: wellness, freedom, love, bliss, security, peace, grace and happiness. I am, and create, all these in my life because I create me as these experiences within first. Match THAT, Universe. And the Universe says, “Yes.” rnWe all want money. Ask for it. We all want love and passion. Ask for it. We all want wellness and unlimited energy. Ask for it.rnThe original meaning of the ancient Hebrew teaching “Ask and you receive” was “Claim or Demand…and you receive.” Well, I am stepping forward to claim and demand the attributes of freedom, love, etc. to perfectly match up with the money and passion I claim, also: that all is good, in integrity, and unconditional love for all concerned. Especially me. And I am standing in my knowing that when I experience my own love and power, I give everyone the excitement, right and power to do the same.rnAnd the Universe says “Yes,” baby. The Universe says — “YES!!”