Sexual Behavior and Sexual Arousal

Sexual Behavior Everyone express their sexual behavior differently depending on their preference and sexual partner. Almost everyone masturbate to explore their sexuality and orgasm so that they become more aware and better at relating with their partner in a sexual relationship. Everyone fantasize during masturbation to enhance pleasure and sexual arousal. Men’s sexual fantasy tend to focus more on the physical part of the women’s body and women’s fantasy focus more on the feelings and emotions that are involved. Some people do not masturbate or have any sexual contact with another individual for personal or religious beliefs and some may only masturbate and not have any sexual contact with another individual also for the same beliefs. Almost everyone also experience erotic dreams accompany by occasional orgasm that occur during the dream. The content of the dreams varies between individuals and sometime it makes sense and other time it doesn’t. The dream may involve normal sexual activity or extreme activities that are considered to be taboo. Most people who are awaken from erotic dreams also noticed they are sexually arouse and having achieve erection and vaginal lubrication. Sometime the dream is accompany by orgasm and men notice this from ejaculation. People who have higher frequency of intercourse and orgasm during masturbation or sexual activity are more likely to experience orgasms during sleep. Women in lesbian sexuality also tend to have better sexual satisfaction and experience more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationship. Lesbian women are better at communicating with their sexual partner and spend more time exploring each other body during sexual interaction. Men in gay sexuality also enjoy showing more physical affections and prefer more physical body contact during sexual activity. Gay men find physical affections are more important in a relationship than any other sexual behavior. Heterosexual couples also practice different sexual positions during sexual intercourse and this may varies depending on the couple’s mood. Some people prefer to be on top and some prefer a position where they can make eye contact and hold each other and some prefer rear entry position. Sexual Arousal Everyone experienced sexual arousal differently because everyone has different preference to how they response sexually. Most commonly everyone get arouse from kissing and touching one another. There are numerous nerve endings on the mouth and lips that provide sensual feeling and erotic pleasure when kissed. Kissing provide intimacy between both partner in which an individual feel good kissing someone as well as an individual feel good receiving a kiss. Touching is also an important sense of arousal because an entire body can respond sexually to touching. Touching does not always have to be directed to the genital area to achieve arousal. Different people prefer different type of touching and some people prefer touching on the breast and nipple to get sexually arouse and other prefer touching and kissing all over the body before touching the genital. Everyone also have different experience to sexual response from different method of stimulation. Some people get excited very quickly to certain stimulation and others may not feel the same way. The ability to get excited quickly during stimulation or sexual activity also has to do with age. When people get older the ability to get arouses and excited also take longer to happen but people continue to enjoy sexual activity in the old age. Almost everyone experience orgasm after the excitement phase in response to sexual arousal. However as people get older the ability to experience orgasm may take longer to achieve and others may continue to experience orgasm less frequently and others may not be able to achieve orgasm at all. For older people that are able to achieve orgasm the experience are usually less intense and for older men the period after orgasm are lengthen for several hours or days before they are able to get sexually arouse or experience the next orgasm.