You Could Do a Job If You Had the Right Tool

Let's say I asked you to put a nail into a wall. Do you think you could do it? nnSure you could…. if you had the right tool.nnNow, let's say – because I really like you, I really believe in you, and I really want to see you succeed – because of all those reasons, I went out and – with great expense and a lot of careful thought, I might add – got you a very expensive, brand new, shiny red…nnChainsaw.nnNow, go ahead and put that nail in the wall. Okay? nn"Okaaaaaaay," you're thinking to yourself. "I guess he knows what he's doing. After all, he's successful, so he must know how to put a nail into a wall, right?" nnSo you're hacking away with your shiny new red chainsaw.nHow's it going?, I ask.n"Ummm, not so good," you reply.nWhat's the matter, I ask you. nnYou mumble something about how you're having a difficult time and you're struggling to get that nail in the wall. So I then exhort you and tell you all the things you should do to get that nail in the wall. After all, I was able to do it! So I give you lots of "helpful" advice like this…nnSet your goals! nVisualize it!nBelieve in yourself!nWork smarter, not harder! nYou can do it! nnNow, what if I see that even after all my wonderful advice, you're STILL not getting that nail in the wall. nnYou want to take as much time off from this putting-the-nail-in-the-wall activity as you can, don't you?nnYou'll complain to others about how tough putting nails in walls is.nYou'll badmouth me, your nail-putting-in manager, behind my back.nYou'll take any excuse to not put nails in walls.nYou'll take it out on your kids or your spouse when you get home.nYour mental and emotional health will suffer. nYou'll look for ways to medicate and "veg out" like watching lots of TV or surfing the Internet, just to relieve the stress of putting nails in walls.nYou'll always be looking for someplace else, someplace better to work. nnAll because I have not given you the right tool to do the job. nnDo you see the real problem here?nnThe real problem is not that you are not able to do the job.nnThe real problem is that you are beating yourself up for not being able to do a job, when you have been given a tool that is completely unsuited for the job you're trying to do.n