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***Being a Man of Inaction
We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding the perfect woman to marry, and after a tough time of a long relationship or the absence of a dating life on the other end of the spectrum, many rubber-band to the opposite of what they think is failure - going after only what's perfect.
***From Boys of Violence to Men of Steel
The divide between boy-thinking and mature male thinking is deep but narrow. Learn how destructive behavior can be turned to the power to build a career, a romance, and a life... Many of you have discovered the unprecedented value in the entirely FREE, Do It Yourself Dating and Attraction Bootcamp Program. You may also have discovered that PART II reveals immediately useful systems to be more effective with women, VIA YOUR IPOD. It’s literally your personal dating and attraction coach by audio player! AND…
***Death as a Masculine Power
What does the death of a male mentor mean for your own identity as a man? The funeral I am driving to, is that of Dr. G. Alec Stewart, a prominent physicist, and Dean of the Honors College where I went to school. In fact, it was his idea to even have an Honors College. To me, he was THE mentor, benefactor, and advocate. In my family, very few people went to college, and of those, nobody had gone beyond an undergraduate degree. We were not of means, and I suppose because of the difficulty in getting a degree, couldn’t find a means to get the means.
***Getting Over Her Rapidly!
It's the age-old problem universal to all men. They may be already physically free of the wrong woman for them, whether they were the one to do the breaking up or vice versa. But... They are still impaired by her, ruled by her, whether still in contact from a few days ago and either obsessed or guilted, or whether it happened years ago in a divorce and she's moved on but you haven't. Well so many questions have arisen this week that return one way or another to this age-old problem that we just had to find a way to address it with the best combination of our offerings and advice.
***The Social Injection Exercise
The advantages of the exercise that you are about to learn, for free, will be: 1. You will meet more women, or have a richer connection to the one you're with. 2. You will get a new career direction, resources, and guidance, or inject your current career with all new ideas, teammates, and above all, ACTION. 3. You will know yourself better than you have in years. Sound worth it? Let's dig in...
***The "Five Shoes" of Forgiving a Woman (and Being Forgiven)
We usually hear about the importance of resolving arguments with empathy and perspective for the other person described as "there are two sides to every coin," or "what would it be like if the shoe was on the other foot?" What about thinking about the shoe itself in that metaphor? Today we have a pretty flawless, thorough way to look at the process of forgiving a woman who's (maybe) done you wrong, and a way to really amplify your own gains in personal growth in the process.
***The Power of the "Underdog" Male
If you have ever been beaten down by life, rejected by a woman, fired, laid off, divorced, struck with a health problem, or some other challenge of life as a man - then you need to know THIS... Some of you may have seen the film, Invictus, with Morgan Freeman and Matt Damon, but like me, you may never have heard of the poem on which it is based before. I met a man recently who had once been a firefighter decades ago. He was solid at what he did. He knew how far was too far and how far was not nearly enough in battling the elements.
***The One Universal Flaw, Excuse and Game-Changer in Dating
Maybe you are a guy who has been searching for "that one thing" you could change to have better attraction and dating with women. It turns out that there is one amazing skill you have, which we could lock eyes on as a universal concept that ultimately makes you sink or swim with women. Here it is, in different words: All dating and relationship problems are communication problems. Think about that.
***Do Talk To Strangers - The Power of Projection in Dating
The most impassioned, powerful time of a physical interaction with a woman is early on in dating, when you don't even know each other as more than strangers. Ironically, it is also the most fickle, fragile, and potentially confusing time - one of missteps and miscommunication because it is so much about the physicality of the body and less about conversation. There is a reason for all of this, and for why it can be so enticing for men and women to indulge in everything from that romantic first kiss on one end of the spectrum, all the way up to a one-night stand on the other:
***Levels of Intimacy
It's something so subtle that most men don't know it's there, but it's at the top of the mind and of highest conce to women: the "intimacy" part of physical intimacy. Men would generally rather ponder the aspects of the "physical" part of course, but some attention to what's going on between the ears would pay off enormously in ways of getting closer to women through a physical connection.
***How to Deal With a Woman Who Can't Celebrate or Be Thankful
Here are your missions of the week: We recognize that the three areas of a man's life which masculinize him, and make him feel most alive, vital and attractive are Work, Women, and Being a Man. At Men's Psychology Magazine we are not just about ideas and talk. We are about you taking the lessons of the many men's skill building courses, and putting them to real action in your life. Below are your "Missions of the Week" in the three core masculine areas, to get a jumpstart on life.
***Decades of Women
We often lump women together into one group; as if they were all cut from the same cloth. While to a certain extent, it is possible that feminine instincts are uniform across demographic boundaries: the desire for resources, the desire for friendship or belonging to a group with focus, the appreciation of masculine attributes such as charm, humor, territoriality and possibly even aggression. There are some fascinating subtleties to the drives and ambitions of women as they develop psychologically through the decades.