10 Ways to Be a Sexy Alpha Male

Alpha Males give off such a sexy vibe that women can't help but be drawn to them. nnThey display dominant, masculine behaviors that we find extremely attractive.nnAnd yeah, I know you're thinking "What does SHE know?" nWell, I know what I (and almost all women) LOVE:nA Sexy Alpha Male. nnFollow these 10 steps and you will be in that 10% of men we CRAVE! nnn1. Have A Fulfilling Life…n...One that you invite others to share with you. nnAlpha Males are sexy because they don't depend on anyone else to tell them 'who they are'. nnAn Alpha Male is first a MAN. A man works hard for what he has and is responsible and accountable for all of his actions. A man takes the lead in situations, from his career to his relationships; and he is completely comfortable and content with all of his relationships.n nThe Sexy Alpha Male is proud of the man he is. Because of this, he is confident; and we all feel more comfortable around and are attracted to confident people.nnn2. Use Your Mind To Control Your EmotionsnnAlpha Males may be emotional, but they do not show it. They are able to control their emotions through their sense of reason and good grasp of reality. nnA man who has no control of his emotions... like "anger", "anxiety", or "embarrassment"... is NOT sexy.nnTake an objective view of every situation. Act as though you are a 'watcher' standing outside of yourself. When you do this, you will show that you are in control. A man who is in control of himself is incredibly sexy. nnn3. Buy Some Good ColognennI can’t stress this enough, but your sexual scent is one of the most important parts of being sexy. nnTry on a few different cologne, after-shave, and deodorant combos until you get one that is uniquely YOU. Watch how people respond to you when you are wearing certain fragrances. nnSince a lot of women are NOT attracted to looks alone, the way you smell makes a huge difference in how attractive they find you. nnn4. Let Women Know That You Are Attracted To Them SexuallynnThis is so important if you want to stay out of the Friend Zone with a certain someone. You make women aroused when you show sexual desire and act like you want them. nnBut of course, you can't do this in a 'creepy' way. :-) Just be natural and have fun with it. Throw sexual innuendos into the conversation. Check out attractive women as they walk by... Have a little bit of that testosterone-driven-on-the-hunt-for-chicks vibe. nnA man who's not afraid to show that he likes women is SEXY. nnn5. Be Masculine With A Hint Of Something ElsennThink James Bond or Simon Cowell and mix it with something else. Masculine geek. Masculine violinist. Masculine playwright. Mix masculinity with something a tad softer. nnPeople who pull this off well: Will Smith, Tim McGraw, even Alex Trebek from Jeopardy has this. Try it. It will give you an air of depth... as long as you remember mostly MASCULINE + HINT of something else. nnn6. Stare Into Peoples’ EyesnnDon’t hold back… especially after you say something that you really mean. Maintaining confident eye contact is a key component of attraction. Not only does the person you are speaking with feel 'heard', but you are also showing dominance. Male dominance is HOT. nnn7. Stand Up StraightnnYep, your mom and your elementary school teachers were unknowingly preparing you to be sexy in the future. :-) n"Head up, shoulders back, no fidgeting!" nThat's right. nnn8. Say What You Think, Want, and NeednnDecide that your opinions matter and then express them. Stand up for yourself. Disagree with people if necessary. Be unashamedly unpredictable. Since most people have a hard time articulating their needs and wants (and worse yet, are afraid to stand by their convictions) you become a break from the norm by speaking your mind. nn"A break from the norm" perfectly describes an Alpha Male. nnn9. Find Your Best Quality and Work ItnnIf you have strong shoulders, show them in a nicely tailored jacket. If you have a beautiful mind, talk about your ideas. Work whatever you’ve got. nnWhen you focus on the really great things about yourself, the other things fade into oblivion. You are only sexy in others' eyes if you are sexy in your own eyes first. So focus your attention on what's awesome about you, and others will pick up on it. nnn10. Love Yourself FirstnnYou become sexy with this one simple tip. When you first love YOU, you will be coming to people out of an overflow of joy rather than neediness. nnChoosing to love yourself makes others follow suit. So fall in love with you and be the Sexy Alpha Male who gets everything he wants! nnnHappy Relating~ n