7 Tips for Dealing with a Jealous Boy/Girlfriend/Spouse
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First, let’s review the dictionary definition of jealousy:
1. Feeling resentment against someone because of that person’s n rivalry, success, or advantages (often fol. by of): He was n jealous of his rich brother.
2. Feeling resentment because of another’s success, advantage, n etc. (often fol. by of): He was jealous of his brother’s n wealth.
3. Characterized by or proceeding from suspicious fears or n envious resentment: a jealous rage; jealous intrigues.
4. Inclined to or troubled by suspicions of rivalry, n unfaithfulness, etc., as in a jealous husband.
5. Solicitous or vigilant in maintaining or guarding something.
Here are the 7 Tips:
1. Jealousy is an issue for the person who is jealous, not the n person receiving the jealous behavior as indicated in the n definitions above. This means that the jealousy directed at n you is not about you! It was there way before you.
2. If you have been unfaithful or play games to make someone n else jealous, then you are the one with the issue.
3. Harboring guilt or feeling that you are at fault if #2 is n not true is unnecessary because the one who is jealous is n the one who has created the need to be jealous.
4. Adjusting your behavior or changing who you are to make n someone who is jealous feel better does not resolve the n jealous behavior. The jealous behavior will usually n continue or will show up in other areas.
5. You cannot fix the jealous behavior if you are not the one n who is jealous. The person who is jealous has to do their n own inner work to move forward in their lives.
6. Jealousy can and does result in rage or anger, quite often n directed at you. Maybe that is why Chris Brown went n ballistic. Jealous rage takes over an individual’s sanity. n Again, it is not about you but is directed at you. If you n are in a jealous rage/anger situation - the best thing for n you to do is be silent and remove yourself from the n situation rather than defending your position or arguing n back.
7. DO NOT attempt to resolve jealousy issues on your own. And n definitely DO NOT attempt to fix another person’s jealousy n issues. That just escalates the situation and you are not n trained in how to uncover the drive behind the jealous n behavior nor are you trained in how to cause healing in the n jealous person.
Hire a professional Relationship Coach or Counselor to help you move forward as a Jealous person OR as a person who is in a relationship with a Jealous person.
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