Are You A Single Woman Looking For Love In The Wrong Place?

Do you feel you are getting into relationships only to find out after a couple of weeks that he is not the one, he does not act as he says he is, you realize that he is not genuine and that you have made a mistake? Do you feel you have been making lots of mistake in choosing the right man, always to be disappointed? Do you feel that maybe you need to give up on men for awhile because you keep attracting the wrong men?nnAre you choosing right? When comes to men do you feel that you have been choosing right, or does it turn out to be something similar to the pass relationship? Do you feel it is in a different package and the same problem reoccurs?nnWhat are you giving up? Do you feel that when you get into a new relationship that you have to give up a big part of you that touches your values, about who you are? Do you feel that you lose a part of you for the sake of the relationship, and that you cannot be yourself because if you did you would not be accepted?nnAre you hoping to change your man? Do you feel that you attract a man in your life and if it does not fit, you will make it fit, hoping he will come around? Do you feel that when you meet a man you are the one who makes a lot of sacrifice for him but not him?nnIs being loyal important no matter what? Is being loyal important no matter you realize that it is not working but you are afraid that if you left him you will not be with a man for a long time so it is better to be with someone than to be alone?nnnDo you have a choice? Do you feel that you have a choice or you are in the relationship and he loves you so you stay with him because you do not want to hurt him and in the meantime you feel you are hurting you?nnDo you feel you are trying to fit in his life? When you start a new relationship do you feel that you are the one who is working to fit into his life and he is not doing anything but goes about his life as before? Do you feel that you are an addition to his life like one of his friend and nothing changes for him because his routine goes back to the same whether you are in it or not?nnTeam in your relationship Do you find yourself working as a team in your relationship only to notice your boyfriend is not a team player, and it is all about him, and him alone and you feel there is no room for you?nnTreating yourself Putting you first which is difficult for many women, because it has a connection with being selfish yet this is the step for loving yourself. Start treating yourself as you would want someone else to treat you because you teach other how to treat you, you show by your actions where your limits are. Believe that you deserve the best that the world has to offer and taking actions to show this is another way of getting the man in your life.nnConclusion: You may be looking for love in the wrong places because you are not sure what you want and if it is possible. It is possible to get the right person when you are clear with yourself.