Attracting The Love You Want

How do you attract the love of your life when all you are doing seems to fail? Is it you or is the universe has fail you?nnWhere you came from? If you came from a difficult relationship in the pass, and you have not done much healing from that relationship you may carry around fears that may stop you from going forward in your new relationship.nnYour thinking The beliefs you have about a love relationship can and do affect the type of person you attract. If you believe you do not deserve a good and easy relationship, you cannot attract differently until you change your thinking from within.nnIs your actions align? Is your actions and what you say aligning. Do you sabotage your self, your goals because you do not follow through? Creating a relationship of friendship with you helps reinforce the love within.nnDo you put yourself first or last? You may put yourself last hoping the other person sees or realize that you care only to see that it does not hold true for every person. Some actions may hurt you by putting yourself last because the person does not see it and takes it for granted. Putting yourself last signals many things, one would be fear of being selfish or abandoning others and you are starting with yourself.nnSo how do you get the love you want? By letting go of past hurts, by stopping blaming yourself or the other person,nand by allowing your heart to be open. Start opening the heart to allow the other person to come in. Create within you an attitude of peace and forgiveness with yourself and the others of your past. By creating a willingness to be flexible to the person you are attracting andnby allowing yourself to attract the best for you because you deserve this strength your success.n nDay to day actions Make a place for this person in your home with toothbrush, bathrobe, and room in the closet and on the bed. These actions help you start opening a place within you to welcome your love one into your life.nnConclusion: Attracting the love of your life start with an attitude within that gradually grows with each conscious action you take and finally manifest in your life.