***Dealing with Job Layoffs

At some point during your lifetime, you may find yourself dealing with a job layoff. The whole idea of a layoff is one of the most frightening things that many people keep in the back of their minds every single day. Since our country has recently gone into a recession, more and more people are starting to worry that their job may not be there tomorrow. nnWhile job layoffs are definitely not the norm, even in this fractured state of our economy, they are certainly one of the most painful and overwhelming things to go through. nnActually, dealing with a job layoff is nearly the same as dealing with death and grief; it comes in several stages. n

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• First, you will find yourself going through the shock stage. Maybe you worked the same job for the last 15 years, and your boss just came in this morning to tell you that you no longer have a job. It’s a shock to the system that nobody can bounce right back from right away. Then, the odds are good that you will go into the denial stage and believe that it isn’t really happening, and that something will change. nn
• Next, many people will clearly notice themselves going through the anger stage. You may become frustrated that this happened to you in the first place, and you may release a lot of pent up emotions about the situation. nn
• Third is the bargaining stage, where you unsuccessfully seek an out for the layoff situation. Then you may go into the depression stage and find it hard to even drag yourself out of bed in the mornings to face the day. nn
• The testing stage comes next, and that is where you begin thinking of realistic solutions to your problem. nn
• Finally, people come to the acceptance stage, when they realize that there isn’t anything they could have done to stop the situation, and they must move on in order to become successful again. n

nThere is no shame in having gone through a layoff, but you must know some important things in order to get through it with your sanity intact. These days, the internet has provided us with many great opportunities to find tips and tricks to get through a job layoff, and you may even search out some support groups or communities online where you can talk to others who are going through the same thing as you are. Some people find that speaking with a therapist helps them get past their job layoff easier. Simply thinking towards the future can help quite a lot. nnSo try to avoid blaming yourself for what happened, or wondering what you did wrong. Start living in the now. You can acknowledge your past, but you must keep moving forward. You may even find that writing a journal is a great way to put your feelings down and deal with them in a more private manner. This is especially great for people who do not feel comfortable talking to a therapist or even their peers about a recent job layoff.