How Attraction Works for Women - Part 2
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One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with that particular person at that particular time.
I know that some people will be upset that I'm talking about this whole concept in such an analytical, detached way... women in particular seem to love the fantasy of two people being "soul mates" and "knowing that your special someone is out there" and "it just happening".
If you're one of those people, stop reading now! lol...
After working on this area of my own personal life for a few years, and trying all kinds of techniques, it finally dawned on me that
Attraction was basically everything.
If a woman feels attraction for a man, then nothing else really matters.
Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion, personal loss, peer pressure from friends and family... none of it matters!
On the other hand, if a women doesn’t feel attraction for a man, then nothing else matters in that case either!
You can't "talk" a woman into feeling attraction, any more than you can "talk" a person who hasn't eaten for three days out of feeling hungry.
I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, you could learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into it that way...
But I'll tell you a little secret: Even that isn't the best way to do things! (I actually know several people who use this method of hypnotizing women... and I haven't met one yet who could use this technique alone to get women... there's always something else going on.)
What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit me like a ton of bricks that attraction is the key to everything with women!
If you don't know what it is or how to create it, you'll wander around trying different techniques... and probably never land on something that works consistently.
And once I realized this, all kinds of things that didn't make sense before instantly made sense to me.
All of a sudde
I realized why women dated abusive jerks... attraction.
I realized why women dated men who were clearly using them and cheating on them... attraction.
And I also saw the flip side!
I realized why women pass up guys who are honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful for losers... attraction.
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