How To Achieve The Things You Think You Can’t

What is the key to high achievement?

Well, there are many factors that lead to our greatest work success. At the top of the list is our ability to push ourselves.

Imagine this familiar scenario:

You are faced with an incredible opportunity. You know that you could propel yourself to new levels of success if you were to take it on and master it. You realize that you could make a significant difference in your company, community, and world. You’re thrilled and honored by the good fortune to have this opportunity presented to you…

Suddenly your excitement starts to dwindle. In fact, it turns to dread.

“Uh-oh,” you think. “This is not exactly the easiest thing to take on.”

Your self-doubts and insecurities start to creep in.

“This could be disastrous! How in the world will I do this? I’ve never done something like this before. I could make a fool of myself. I’ll never be able to show my face outside of my house again. Or worse, I could lose all self-confidence, which is shaky to begin with…”

Most people do not handle this scenario well.

They make one of the following common mistakes:

1) They decide to avoid the opportunity. They choose to settle for the status quo rather than going after an incredible change because they fear failure and humiliation.
2) They go after the opportunity before they are ready. They plunge right in (smartly knowing that if they don’t take action, they never will). The problem is that they haven’t adequately prepared. They haven’t lined up the resources and support that they need. They haven’t created a plan. They may be successful, but it is more due to luck than strategy.
3) They dilute their responsibility. They go after the opportunity, but choose to be a follower rather than a leader. This way, if it doesn’t work, they aren’t to blame, but if it does, they can claim partial victory.
4) They rely on old crutches. They go for it, but do so with their old crutches and habits which hold them back from truly pursuing the opportunity.
5) They retreat at the first sign of failure. Unfortunately many people escape from uncomfortable situations too early—before they have a chance to get used to the anxiety and achieve their goals.

You see, avoidance is the number one killer of confidence and high-achievement. All five of the mistakes above entail some form of avoidance.

The keys, therefore, to achieving more than ever before are to:

1) Seek out opportunities to challenge yourself.
2) Align your resources to be best prepared for the challenge.
3) Go for it 100%, without holding back or relying on crutches.

To take on your biggest challenges, you will need some level of confidence that you can handle them. The way to build this confidence is by building momentum. Start out by strategically taking on opportunities that push you out of your comfort zone by about 20%. Then go up to 40%. Then 60%. Then 80%. Then 100% (your most difficult and important goal).

As Newton discovered, a body at rest stays at rest and a body in motion stays in motion. Get the ball rolling by taking on smaller challenges, and soon you’ll have momentum on your side to help you with the larger challenges.

For example, let’s say that your challenge is confrontation. You hate confrontation and avoid it at all costs. But in order to better develop your employees and stand up for yourself, you must master the art of confrontation.

You’d start by correcting someone who mispronounces your name or leaves off your job title. Then you’d give an honest performance appraisal (including negative feedback) to your employee. Then you’d confront a coworker who frequently takes credit for your work. Finally, you’d confront your boss who takes credit for your work.

What’s your challenge?

Once you’ve identified it, break it up into steps and start at step one.

Pretty soon you’ll surprise yourself with all that you’re able to achieve. Nothing will be out of your reach. nnn