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I Was So Embarrassed

Topic: Life LessonsPublished February 25, 2009

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In March 1987, I launched a new magazine called Creating Excellence: Vermont’s Journal for People in Growing Businesses. nnIt was a very proud moment. The magazine was my baby—a beautiful baby. In fact, the cover of the invitation to the launch party read, “A Magazine is Born.” n nI’d worked hard for over a year to create it, and the premiere issue was a real success. I did it with only one part-time employee, while contracting with an editor and a design firm for the production. n nShortly after we mailed 25,000 copies of the premiere issue, I received a copy of it in the mail. This one wasn’t so beautiful, however. It was all marked up in red ink with corrections of typos and grammatical errors. A very competent proofreader had taken it upon herself to go through the issue with a fine-toothed comb and had found more errors than I could have imagined.n nIt was a humbling experience. When your masthead says “Creating Excellence,” the contents should certainly exemplify excellence. The articles did, but the errors this woman had found showed that we were far from excellent.n nI was embarrassed. I was also upset—upset with my editor for not having caught more of the typos and upset with someone I didn’t even know who seemed to have taken pleasure in pointing out our errors. Mostly, though, I was upset with myself for not having hired another proofreader to ensure an excellent issue.n nIt seemed unfair for someone to be so critical. Why couldn’t she have cut us some slack? After all, it was our first issue, and I’d never published anything other than a newsletter before. nnSomehow, I was able to get over the pain and the defensiveness I felt. I knew I had to admit our errors and to own them. I called the woman who had so pointedly shown us that we were not so excellent. I thanked her for taking the time to so thoroughly go through our magazine. As painful as it was, I took responsibility for it. n nThen, I offered her a job. I never asked her if that was her intention, but for the rest of the issues we published, “Wendy” was our proofreader. Before we went to type—yes, that’s the way we did it in those days—we sent her a copy of each edited article. She always found mistakes, and we always corrected them before press time. n nThe result was a far better publication—one in which we could take well-deserved pride.n nWhat did I learn? n nI can think of at least three things. First, make a real commitment to excellence. Be willing to do what it takes to put out an excellent product or to provide an excellent service. Second, don’t be defensive. Own up to it when you’re faced with evidence that you’re not as great as you thought you were. Remember, an upset is an opportunity to see the truth. Third, put systems into place to prevent similar errors in the future and to make excellence an ongoing effort.n nIt’s all pretty simple but not always easy. The payoff is, however, well worth it.nn** This article is one of 101 great articles that were published in 101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life. To get complete details on “101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life”, visit http://www.selfgrowth.com/greatways.html n

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Michael Angier is the founder and president of SuccessNet. Their mission is to inform, to inspire, and to empower people to be their best—personally and professionally. Download SuccessNet’s free e-booklet, “10 ESSENTIAL KEYS TO PERSONAL EFFECTIVENESS,” from http://www.SuccessNet.org/keys.htm or by sending a blank e-mail to keys@SuccessNet.org. More free subscriptions, books, and SuccessMark Cards are available at http://www.SuccessNet.org.

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