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The Strategy To Picking Up Bartenders in Bars - Part 1

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Leaning over the marble bar and at the top of my voice I order a vodka tonic, the young blonde girl behind the bar looks at me inquisitively and asks about my vintage ¾ length velvet jacket I’m wearing and remarks she likes it. I smile … Without pausing she quickly and effortlessly places a crisp tonic water and a shot of vodka on a obviously designer made serviette with the emblem “IVY”, for I was at the Ivy night spot, know to celebrities and stars around the world as the club where you pick up glamour girls. Tonight was my night to shine. It had been three solid weeks where I didn’t go out at nighttime. I was working around the clock the last few weeks on my new DVD the prequel to Street Dating Revealed with my only friend my final cut pro editing suite and a good ‘ole cup of instant coffee, that rancid burning taste that pierces and numbs your taste buds after the third cup and I was well past that. Standing there at the Ivy nightspot surrounded by some of Australia’s most beautiful women I found myself drawn to the idea of walking away with the bar girls phone number or even better …her The question was how would I make this possible… There is a SECRET that most men don’t know about talking to these types of girls ESPECAILLY when they’re working which I’ll reveal in just a moment. The challenge with these girls who are “working” these jobs is the fact that they are the easiest to talk to, that said they’re also the most challenging to get a phone number from. The secret strategy is what I call “order a drink and make her think” and has worked for me many times and even my closest friends exclaim how powerful this simple technique is as they’ve had much success from using it to meet hot bartenders. It’s not really a technique so to speak of but this “order a drink and make her think” helps me remember what I need to do. It’s very simple and this is how it goes:nn** Order a drink from the hottest bartender you see, even if you have to wait for her to serve you it’ll be worth it, it doesn’t really matter what you order just make sure you order it from the hottest girl working the bar.nn** When she asks what you would like say with a smile and friendly demeanor “What do you recommend?”nnor “There’s so much choice here what would you recommend to me or what’s your favorite?”nnnn** The key here is to make her think – you’ve broken the pattern of customer -> bartender and asked what she recommends rather than simply requesting a specific drink like all the other guys there, this is the first step to standing out.nn** Depending on how busy it is you can easily chat to these girls. The fact is 99% of these girls are bored for they’re working, serving drinks and everybody’s else is having fun so they yearn for some cool guys to playfully make jokes about them and flirt with her. If it’s not busy at the bar simply make statements about her and assumptions such as:nn** “I love the way move … you have such a grace about you” (say it in a cheesy tone)nn** “I’m guessing you’re a Taurus … you have such an strange undertone to the way you poured that beer … The key here is to make her think i.e. “order a drink and make her think” and say something which is completely logically opposite or philosophical. END OF PART 1 Want to learn the best way to approach, attract and seduce women without fear? If so, take a look at Alex Coulson’s Free Audio Ebook that provides top tips when it comes to attracting women in your life.nnhttp://www.DatingWorkshops.com.au

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Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

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