Why Intelligent Men Fail With Women - Part 4

REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS"

What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out?

He looks for information to help him solve the problem.

More information is always the answer.

Information is the friend of a smart guy.

Got a strange virus on your computer? Just hop on the Internet and search for how to eliminate it.

Don't know how to change the alternator on your car? No prob. Just buy the manual and turn to page 147.

Don't know the definition of a word? Open up your dictionary.

More information solves the problem.

So what do smart guys do when it comes to overcoming a problem with women?

They want more information.

They think the answer lies in learning just one more technique... or one more magic concept.

Well what if there were a situation in life where the "get more information" strategy actually made things worse?

How would you even know that it was making things worse?

Now, I don't want to suggest that learning more about how to be successful with women is a bad thing. It's not.

But if you have a problem that is emotional or physical in nature, then reading five million theories on it probably isn't going to help you very much.

You need to get out in the real world and try some stuff!

You need to look at the real problem... the root of the problem.

When it comes to women and dating, there's a very good chance that you have more than enough "information".

Smart guys often use "more information" to distract them from taking action.

I've heard this referred to as "Creative Avoidance".

Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life.