Are You Really Sure You Want A ... Spiritual Relationship?

ARE YOU REALLY SURE THAT YOU WANT A…
SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIP?

A consciously awakened spiritual relationship…is a treasure beyond value if you have the emotional courage to use it as self-help mirror.

A spiritually conscious relationship is a covenant based on the highest degree of truth and integrity. You recognize your equality by acknowledging that you are both unique manifestations of the same Spirit. This awareness allows you to see past any negative human identities (roles) that may emerge. Instead, you focus on the Spirit within you. When you are in Spirit, you are ONE with the Universe and therefore you can experience a Namasté relationship. You bond with the understanding that you are together because it is appropriate for your souls to grow together. You consciously recognize that you are both in the process of spiritual growth, and that a commitment to be emotionally honest is essential.

A HU NOTE: EMOTIONAL HONESTY takes courage!
This courage is built upo
TRUST, which develops as partners learn, through experience,that within the relationship it’s emotionally safe to share their feelings. This trust and emotional safety allows you to be EMOTIONALLY INTIMATE.

I first became awakened to the difference between “old-world” co-dependent relationships and the “new-world” inter-dependent relations after reading Gary Zukav’s book, The Seat of the Soul. Gary taught me that Spiritual Relationships are much freer than the “old-world models,” because spiritual relationships allow you to leave behind the stereotypical roles that existed merely for survival. By leaving these roles behind, you align yourself with the Universal Spirit for the evolution of your immortal soul. By making the choice to be in a consciously awakened, spiritual relationship, you are choosing to respond to your partner with compassion and love, instead of doubt and fear.

"If I accept the fact that my relationships are here to make me conscious, instead of happy,then my relationships become a wonderful SELF-mastery tool that keeps realigning me with my higher purpose for living."
ECKHART TOLLE

Spiritual Relationships create intimacy, which in turn provides a safe space where you can willingly surrender your ego defenses. In such a relationship, you feel free to share your innermost secrets, repressed feelings, and emotions. This creates a sacred space where it feels safe to be emotionally vulnerable. This spiritually secure space allows you to feel safe enough to open up emotionally and share with your partner your innermost thoughts and feelings. In this divine space, you are free to stand emotionally naked, with no mind games or premeditated thoughts, which allows you to communicate the truth of your being.

A HU NOTE: Spiritual partners DO NOT commit to having “perfect” behavior. What they DO commit to is owning their “imperfect” behavior as quickly as humanly possible.

As you master the Language of Feelings, you’ll know why you are feeling the way you are feeling, which will make being in a spiritual relationship a pleasure. You’ll learn how to use your intuitive heart to communicate to your spiritual partner how you feel. If you try to use your mind to think about what you are feeling, you’ll be communicating to him or her from your defensive ego rather than from your loving spirit. You need to master the Language of Feelings if you truly want to develop a spiritual relationship.

HLC’s Relationship Mastery Course requires you to educate yourself about the ways in which your spiritual partners were emotionally wounded. With this knowledge you can help them heal by avoiding words or deeds that unconsciously trigger feelings that are still very tender. Also, you need to view your spiritual partner as your best counselor rather than your worst critic. This is because your partner will mirror back to you that which you most need in order to heal emotionally. Remember that intimacy creates emotional safety and when people feel safe, their passion comes alive. nn