Are You Repelling Your Soulmate?

It’s still early enough in the year for you to make your commitment to have 2009 be THE year you magnetize your soulmate!nnMillions of people have found their divinely connected love partner, and if they can do it, YOU can do it…nnIf…nnYou avoid the Top 5 Non-Supportive Love Patterns that REPEL SOULMATE LOVE!nnThe #5 Non-Supportive Love Pattern is:nn“Leaky Energy”nn…which means you are keeping a few ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends around as “just friends” and even sometimes they are “friends with benefits”…nnYou know what I mean!nnThis is Leaky Energy. This is an unconscious block that drains your energy and keeps your beloved away. nnIf you keep your life filled with these exes, there’s no place for your soulmate! Maybe you’ve heard the quote:nn“Nature abhors a vacuum” nn…this means: “clear out the old, prepare and open for the new!”nnSo, who are you holding onto? Let ‘em go!nnYes, I know that sometimes staying connected with an ex is necessary, like if you have children together…but many times you may stay involved with each other out of loneliness or habit or convenience.nnIf you are really ready to open up to love, respectfully and lovingly release those exes (that you can) to the Universe and to their soulmates, and allow that space that they once filled in your life to just…be….empty.nnYes. EMPTY.nnAmazing possibilities open up for you when you do this.nnI did this…as many other soulmate couples have done before me.nnI’m not saying this is easy. Many of our LoveLaunch clients resist me when I say this. nnBut for the many who have done this, it was A HUGE SHIFT which was absolutely necessary for them to be truly ready for love…nnYou may be lonely for awhile. Good. It’s okay to just be by yourself sometimes… It may be uncomfortable, but remember this:nn“Comfort comes as a guest, lingers as a host, and stays to enslave you”…nnUse your newly acquired time and higher energy levels for journaling, exercising, meditating, creating your vision board. This new time becomes your magnetic time.nnYes, quiet contemplation and self-love helps make you a soulmate magnet!nnYou work on You….and he/she will be drawn to you….nnIF…nnYou also avoid the #4 Non-Supportive Love Pattern…nnIn our next issue of “Say Yes To Love” bi-monthly article (in two weeks), I will share with you the #4 Non-Supportive Love Pattern that could be repelling your soulmate from you!nnSee you then.nnTo your happiness and success in love in 2009,nnLaran