Being a Jerk and Using Dirty Pick Up Lines Don't Attract Girls

Good guy often wonder why jerks who are good at dirty pick up lines seem to be more effective in getting girls compared to them who treat women right. It is common for a girl to be attracted first to jerks because most of the times, these jerks come up to them first and seem to be saying all the right things. Jerks are even good at making fun through dirty pick up lines which seem to be attractive at first. However, once the girl realizes that she's talking to a bad ass, she would just get disappointed and leave that jerk behind, unless of course she thinks of herself as a low value and find attachment to emotional abuse. Hot and smart girls do not fall for jerks, but the jerk's behaviour helps in getting to them first. The first thing that actually helps jerks in getting what they want is the fact that they do not care what other people think of them. When a prick sees a girl and he thinks he likes her, he would not have any second thoughts of approaching her. It would be so easy for him to talk to the girl without even worrying about the dirty pick up lines that he will say. He will not care if the girl likes him or not, as long as he likes the girl, he would do anything to get her. But a nice guy, when he sees a hot girl, he would feel intimidated and would hope she would like him first. Nice guys care not only about what a girl thinks but they also care so much about what other people think. So even before the approach, the nice guy already has some issues about approval and rejection. This is where the jerks beat the good guys because jerks do not think about rejection or the girl's impression at all and all they think is that they just want to get what they want and do whatever it takes to get them. If good guys would only focus on what they want and their goals, good guys are likely to get the women they desire. All jerks that ever existed are not afraid to approach a girl. It is important for a guy to walk to a woman and talk to her because this is how you start your connection with a girl. This is something that jerks have all the guts to do and they are fearless of rejection. If a girl rejects a jerk, he will not think that there is something wrong with him. He would instead think that it is the girl who's got a problem. Because jerks get in line first, this created the women's mindset that all guys are jerks. Good guys need to have the courage to approach a woman and erase the feeling of rejection so that they get girls before jerks do. Girls deserve to have the best guys and they should be treated with respect and this is what every guy should do. Once this happen, who knows, jerks would turn out to be good guys too. Rejection is a normal thing and you should not take it personally. Everybody get rejected not because they are ugly or they are less of a person, but because they come to the wrong girl, at the wrong place and time. There is no need to be discouraged and turn yourself into a jerk because you are rejected. Jerks treat women like dirts and they are good pickup artists of