Best way to Overcome Breakup for a Girl

Undergoing a major breakup for a girl is like walking on fire! The pain, agony and loneliness that one feels is best understood by someone who has equally undergone the same feeling. Depending on how seriously you had taken the relationship, you feel that much miserable post breakup. Giving yourself away emotionally and mentally to a person, and then realizing that it is all over, just tortures the heart away. The good times that you had with him, the bond that was created and felt, the promises that were made, the memories shared, everything just shattered to pieces right before your eyes!! For a few days, the loneliness empowers the mind so much so that we are in kind of trance that does not allow us to come to terms with the reality. There is an obvious grieving and crying for the loss of relationship. Things that we have to do, do keep us occupied, but only until the tasks are fulfilled. The sleepless nights and heartaches just do not seem to be stopping. Is there any end to this? rnMany of my friends tell me I should have another boyfriend so that I’m able to forget this one, but what if the new relationship too undergoes a breakup? Well, after coming out of this painful experience, I certainly do not want to jump into something similar, once again.rnSo come, let’s gain some insight into the best way to overcome a breakup! Recovering from a breakup is just like coming out of a physical disease. Like how the elimination of a physical disease needs the right diagnosis by an experienced doctor along with correct medication and follow up, similarly, recovering from a breakup needs the replacement of wrong beliefs by right understanding! How is this possible? Try to understand the spiritual science; it will liberate you off all your pain. rnYou experienced that when trying to find happiness outside, it led to eventual sadness and hurt. Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan beautifully explains that once you realize your Real Self (Self-Realization) that is inside you, your spiritual contentment will have no bounds!!rnAkram Science, the stepless path to Self-Realization!! Akram Science indicates that we all are really a Pure Soul, a source of complete eternal happiness (bliss)!! The Soul has infinite energies. Yet, look at our state, how it has become! It is because we have not realized our real identity so far! Once we realize our own Self, we won’t need someone or something outside to be happy inside. The law of Nature is very precise and exact. Accept that ‘Whatever happens is correct!’rnAfter Self-Realization, in the satsang of Gnani Purush, we understand the entire law of Nature — how misery arises in our life, what is the real cause of the misery arising inside, and how this cause can be eradicated. The entire law of the Nature becomes very clear. Being in that relationship wasn’t meant for you and so this breakup was meant to be. So accept the law of Nature that ‘Whatever happens is correct!’ You are crying over losing your love. But just think about it - was it actually real love? rnNo! It is only after Self-Realization, that we experience the real love. Real love is permanent. It stays the same, no matter what others do, and it remains completely unconditional. The entire world can be won over by Real love. Where there is real love there is no deceit. Where there is deceit there is no real love. There is no give or take there, there is only oneness everywhere. Where there is such love, faith and purity that is where God is!! Gnani Purush’s love is the permanent love which neither increases nor decreases! rnReal love is found in the heart of Gnani, who is the Embodiment of Love. Whatever He does is for our own benefit and in return He does not expect anything from us. His love is pure love that makes us complete and free. This relationship never ends and there is no betrayal here. How beautiful our life would be to be in contact with this complete Gnani Purush?!!! With Him, all our goals in life will be accomplished, all our puzzles will be solved, all our miseries will end and we will attain liberation. So the best way to overcome breakup is:rnMeet Gnani, attain Self-Realization from Him and remain in His satsang. In His presence, recovering from the break up becomes much easier. When faced with severe most difficulties in life, if one's mind remains steady (unshaken), sorrow less, stainless (does not see anyone at fault) and secure- this is the highest blessing of Gnani!!! To know and meet the Gnani please visit:-https://www.dadabhagwan.org/spiritual-masters/pujya-deepakbhai/the-hidden-jewel/