By Saying ‘Yes’ To Them, You Say ‘No’ To You, Your Impact, Your Millions!
Look at you!
Full of pent-up potential…
With the ability to change lives in that way that you do…
You are leader, born to dominate…
And you know it!
But I look at your life and I realise that you are not doing it…
You say things like…
My children need me 24/7…
My partner needs me to be available…
My parents want my help and you know, I have to honour them…
That friend of mine over there needs me…
My boss needs me…
My clients (the ones that I secretly no longer want to serve) need me…
And you go around your day saying ‘yes, yes, yes’ to everyone else’s agenda…
EXCEPT YOURS!
And you tell yourself that you don’t know HOW to grow your business…
You are not sure of the STRATEGY…
And so, in the time when you are not saying ‘yes’ to everyone else…
You are reading, learning, studying…
Trying to find the magic that will work definitely RIGHT NOW!
Because you know you don’t have that much time to make your business work…
Because you are busy saving the wrong people from themselves…
And you are shocked that I would say that!
After all, your family and friends surely have to come first, don’t they?
You are supposed to be nice and wonderful to everyone, aren’t you?
After all, you were selfish once…
And now you feel so guilty all the time…
And you say ‘yes, yes, yes, YES!’ to anyone that asks just to drown out the guilt you feel inside…
And they use that sore spot inside of you to make you do what they want…
Not deliberately but because you let them!
And let’s be honest…
There is a part of you that resents them…
You kinda know that all these yeses are eating into your very limited time…
But you are afraid that they will stop loving you…
They will be horrified that you dare to put yourself first…
And so you keep saying yes…
Yes to work you no longer want to do…
Yes to whatever help they need from you…
Yes to being a doormat…
And I ask you, leader…
IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT?
What of all those big ideas of impact and wealth that you have inside of you?
What of YOU?
Why are you not important enough to matter?
Why is your agenda taking last place to everyone else’s?
Why are you still punishing yourself for some imagined crime which you committed aeons ago but you still think you have to pay for it?
At what point will you have earnt forgiveness?
You are leader!
And yes, when you finally step up fully to the person that you are born to be…
There will be some who do not like it!
And some of them will even be VERY close to you…
And it will hurt…
But again, what do you want?
A life lived to please…
Or a life of impact and power and changing lives…
Yes, I know the ‘norm’ answer…
It is force-fed to them in every movie…
Every TV show…
‘You have to be nice and make everyone happy’ – That is the nonsense fed to norms…
But when did you become a norm?
DECIDE!
Do you want a normal life?
Or an extraordinary one?
Do you want to just get by?
Or do you want a first class life of significance and impact?
It is your choice.
But if you are going to impact the people you are born to serve…
If you are going to go to the grave empty…
If you are going to create the wealth for you and for yours that you know you can…
Then get over the nonsense…
And focus!
Get your priorities in the right place…
And get to winning, leader!
Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…
Because you want to!
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