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Common mistakes men make with women

Topic: DatingPublished March 15, 2011

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The reality is that if you do these common mistakes men make with women in your dating life, you won't have one at all, all what you're going to have will be meetings with women, and that's all, here are the details:

What are these mistakes and how to avoid falling in them?

I've been a victim of these bad habit for a long time, I couldn't find a solution to get my dating life and success with women handled, I didn't know what mistakes I was doing, so I had no idea how to stop them from ruining my dating life.

It was after a long and hard experience that I could know what it was.

It's the bad habit of "Pleasing Others".

  • Yes, that's the number one killer in my opinion!

What's wrong with pleasing others?

Simple, it shows neediness.

They are going to perceive you as having no life and lacking self-esteem.

People are strange and hard to understand. You help them with their problems and they hate you?

Absolutely.

How come?

By being there for them all the time, they will start to see in themselves a kind of powerful figure that controls you and without them your life would be incomplete, this is one of the most common mistakes men make with women.

With women especially, this can be multiplied by thousands.

Women perceive men who stay around them and provide to their needs as weak and childish.

And trust me; women are disgusted by men who are like this.

Women who say this to you in a frank and honest way are fine, the big issue is that you may fall in love for another type of women and this type is highly damaging to your confidence and will draw your energy.

I'm referring to those women that make you fall into the trap of:

They like you and want to be around you on the condition that you pay for them, help her with their emotional problems or/and support them, while giving you the impression that you are safe with them.

This type of behavior is very expensive to you, both financially and to your self-esteem.

And the big issue is that you are not aware of it, until your life is upside-down.

A mean, gold-digger, woman can do this with you for months and even years without you knowing what she is preparing for you until she finds another guy who is able to give her more and never ask for anything from her.

To end this situation if you find yourself with such type of a woman, you must have control over your life; no unnecessary favors to others especially women and help only yourself.

If a girl starts asking you for favors or worse, money, tell her directly: NO, if you feel not satisfied or scammed by a woman, by all means, don’t stay longer with her, beat it!

She will be the one following you around.

This may seem rude from me, but women will love a man who has control over his life, won't be controlled by others and who knows how to avoid not making those common mistakes men make with women, read this article I’ve written on:

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