Control Life By Controlling Your Attitude and Behavior

If you want to control life to get what you want you need to control your attitude and behavior. If people do not like you it is not because there is something wrong with them. It is not their faults that stop them from seeking your company or becoming your friends. It's not their faults that cause them to break up with you. It is not the world's fault you do not have a good job or do not have enough money. You can be in control and have the capacity to shape life to your own liking. But you need the will to do it. Your Relationships If your relationship is not going well do not list all the faults of your partner and all the things they did or did not do to contribute to the relationship. Do what you can to foster a climate of goodwill by making a generous, positive contribution to help the relationship to grow. Look to what you can give and make sure you do that. This will encourage your partner to respond in the same way. If this does not happen, then you might have the wrong partner, and you can at least be assured you did what you could to make it work. On the other hand, you may decide it does not matter. You may be the one that supplies most of the emotion to the relationship but your partner might give faithfulness or loyalty or consideration. Look for the good traits in your partner that compliment your own. This way the relationship could work. Your Work The same applies to your job. You decide what you have to give to your work to get the rewards you want from it. This means getting both satisfaction and money. You need to want to go to work every day. You will only do this if your attitude to your job is positive. This means treating your co-workers with courtesy and respect and looking for opportunities to work with them co-operatively. It's not a matter of ingratiating yourself to them or your boss, but rather treating them as associates, not as adversaries. Your positive, helpful attitude will rub off and most will respond in like manner. Your willingness to give generously of your time and effort will be noticed and rewarded. There is an old saying along the lines: Don't look for a job you love to do but get to love the job you have to do. In other words, use positive thinking to help you enjoy your present job. Your Life There is a lot in the law of attraction when it comes to what you get in life. Think and act in a positive way and you will attract people. This attitude will flow through to all aspects of your life. Good things will happen because you expect them to. Where once you may have looked on a particular happening as negative, you will look for the positive side to it. You will look for the opportunities it might offer and you will find them. This will open up the opportunity to meet more people, which will allow you to choose who you want to mix with or cultivate. You can control life by taking control of the way you think, which will affect the way you behave, which will eventually give you the life you want.