Creative Problem Solving

We are all creative creatures, though when faced with challenging situations, our minds can get so wrapped around the problem, that we find ourselves unable to see even a hint of a possible solution. Other times, even though the best solution is obvious, we may feel reluctant to acknowledge it because it feels uncomfortable.

Several perplexed women emailed me for helpful suggestions. They wanted to know what can they do with the husbands they love, but who have become devout womanizers. When the wives pleaded with their husbands to abandon the thrill of new conquests, the husbands just grinned and said, "You must be kidding, honey." These guys couldn't care less for what their wives want or feel or say.

When they emailed me, the women were hoping for a hypnotic spell or a magic word they can use on their straying husbands. The first magic word that popped into my mind was "divorce", followed by more words of wisdom "drop him, let go and move on with your life". Even suggesting hypnosis recordings like "Get over that relationship" or "Attract your ideal love relationship" didn't seem to be viable options because the women still feel deeply attached to and dependant on their husbands. These women want to know what else they can do to convert men, who now look more like frogs, back into princes charming who seduced, married, and promised to honor and cherish them forever.

Sometimes words alone do not work, at least not when spoken directly. Indirect hypnotic language, metaphors, scrambled sentences peppered with meaningful words can work if used skillfully. It takes less time to act out of character. Do something unexpected, even outrageous. Become unpredictable. Become mysterious. Get busy with something that genuinely makes you feel good about yourself and about your life. Surround yourself with people who share your interests and who appreciate you. Reinvent yourself.

Of course, a woman preparing food for her husband could unleash all her feelings and passionate desires into the food and chant over it something like "By the power of three times three, forever faithful to me you'll be", while imagining her husband having eyes only for her and transforming himself into the prince charming she married. Then, wait and see what happens. This would make her at least temporarily feel better, even if the rake remains determined to follow in the footsteps of Casanova.

A more spiritual approach would be to send love and blessings to the straying husband, let him live his life in any way that makes him feel happy, and then pray for a suitable companion and a happy marriage in general - regardless whether it turns out to be with this man or with someone else. Appropriate affirmation at this time may be "If my husband is perfect for me, may he be faithful to me. If he is not meant for me, I am ready to let go and move on." And then pay attention to what happens.

When we find ourselves in perplexing situations we can program our subconscious minds for an insight into the challenging situation and for a solution through a prophetic dream. A Prophetic Dreaming hypnosis recording can guide you through this process.

Questions that may stimulate further insight into the problem and bring about the solution are: "How can I benefit from this situation?", or "What can I learn from this situation?", or "How can I turn this situation around?" To keep your wits around you and your mind subconscious searching for positive outcomes in any situation, you can remember to repeat often "Something good comes out of everything."