Definition: Finding Love

Here are some simple, fairly inexpensive ideas to help you find love and nurture yourself so that you are not left waiting for a relationship to fulfill those needs. Remember that finding love starts on the inside.nnStepsnn1. Write down a list of everything a romantic partner would give you. Review the list to see if there are any items that you can give yourself right now.nn2. Romance Yourself. Have a picnic in the middle of your living room, with a nice bottle of wine, candles and the music of your choice. Write a love letter to your future beloved.nn3. Visualize every day that you are in the romance of your dreams, remember to engage the feeling of love. nn4. Buy yourself flowers or treat yourself to a massage.n n5. Instead of waiting for someone to take you on a vacation, go on a romantic trip for one.nn6. Be conscious of your thoughts. Talk to yourself as you want your future mate to talk to you. nn7. Stop putting off activities until “your love” arrives, go out and get active doing what you love to do right now. You never know who you will meet.nn8. Avoid negative single people who complain that there are “no good ones” left. Surround yourself with people who are in alignment with your desire to experience true love.nn9. Identify and release any ideas that block you from attracting love such as negative self-talk, lack of trust, desperation and impatience.nn10. Remember that you are the prize and if someone doesn’t love and adore you, there is a four-letter word for that….”next!”