Do’s and Don’ts in Thailand (Thai Customs / Thai Etiquette)

One may find the familiar adage, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do” suiting when you travel to Thailand, especially for the first time. The Thais are known for their tolerance, warmth and hospitality. Whether for holiday, business, or retirement, spending time in the Land of Smiles can be truly an amazing experience.

Make new friends along the way and get the most out of your Thai experience by bearing in mind the simple Thai Customs and Etiquette during your stay.

The Monarchy

-The Royal Family is held in the highest regards in Thailand and it is expected that visitors show similar forms of respect. Any negative remark or vandalism of the King’s image is considered an offense and is punishable by Thai law.

-To most Thais, the Royal Family is the living representation of their nationhood. Whenever the national anthem or royal anthem is played, prepare to stand up.

Buddhism

-Thais also regard Buddhism with the highest respect. They consider all Buddha images of any size or make as sacred. Don’t climb atop or pose for photos next to the Buddha image.

-Always dress appropriately in temples and shrines. Wearing shorts and sleeveless shirts is not allowed when visiting any temple.

-It is OK to wear shoes in the temple grounds, but you need to take it off when you enter a temple.

-It is forbidden for women to touch and be touched by a monk. If a woman wishes to make an offering, she should first place the goods on a piece of cloth and this will be retrieved by the monk.

Social Etiquette

-It is customary for Thais to greet each other with a “wai” – a palms-together, prayer-like gesture. Though a handshake is accepted in big cities, a wai is still very much appreciated.

-When visiting a Thai home or entering some shops or offices, it is customary to remove your shoes before entering particularly when you see shoes arranged by the door.

-The head is considered to be the highest part of the body, literally and figuratively. Be careful not to touch anybody’s head even children. In the same manner, the foot is considered the lowest part of the body. Don’t use your foot to point at people or items. Don’t touch anyone with your feet or rest your feet on tables or chairs. Don’t walk over people, walk around or politely ask them to move.

-When handing items to people, use the right or both hands. When you need to pass something, don’t slide or toss items. Instead, get up and pass them in person.

-Losing your temper or making a scene in public is frowned upon. Even talking loudly on the mobile is considered impolite. Avoiding confrontation and keeping “face” is highly regarded in Thai society.

-Couples’ public displays of affection are not usually seen in Thai culture. Kissing is not common and some Thai couples only go as far as holding hands in public.

Appearance and Clothing

-Despite Thailand being known for its thriving sex industry, the majority of the population is actually fairly conservative. It is important that you wear clothing that is appropriate. Wearing a dress that shows too much skin is not socially acceptable. And going nude or topless at the beach will definitely not win you a Ms. Congeniality award, either.

This sums up a round of do’s and don’ts in Thai culture guaranteed to make your stay in Thailand a breeze. Just remember that everything can be overcome with a warm smile and a friendly disposition. After all, Thailand isn’t called the ‘Land of Smiles’ for nothing.