Do you know the 9 areas of focus for relationship healing?
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WHAT DO YOU THINK ARE THE 9 MOST IMPORTANT AREAS FOR YOU TO FOCUS ON TO CREATE LOVING RELATIONSHIPS?
* Do you think money is the solution? If only my partner and I had enough money....
* Do you think career is the solution? If only my partner and I had better careers, positions, jobs, education, opportunities...
* Do you think sex is the solution? If only my partner would do more to please me... If only I were more attractive... If only my partner desired more sex... If only I had enough sex....
* Do you think physical health is the solution? If only I wasn't so tired... If only my body didn't hurt... If only I lost ___ pounds... If only my partner was healthier... If only our health problems could be cured....
* Do you think communication is the solution? If only my partner would understand me better....
* Do you think friends or family not interfering is the solution? If only my parents understood me better... If only my in laws would not interfere... If only my children would listen... If only the people around me were more supportive and cooperative....
While all of the above are certainly factors in our relationships that can seem to cause us all sorts of emotional upsets, they are not the root cause nor are they the final solution.
In a previous article I talked about the 3 main causes of all relationship problems. Now I want to share with you the 9 areas of focus for relationship healing.
Click on the link in the author's bio below. You might be surprised at the answers you hear.
Please leave a comment about what you believe are the solutions to relationship problems.
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