Facing the Truth

His voice was low and barely audible, and the tears he held back hinted at something deeply troubling. Mike was an average guy: athlete in high school, served in the Army for 4 years, and had worked for the same company for almost 20. His life had been nearly perfect until one day when things started to change in a disturbing way. The problem was his wife. For 27 years they had shared a wonderful life together, filled with children, ups and downs, and many memories. Now she was distant. Something was changing and he couldn’t quite put his finger on it. Maybe it was the fact that she had recently joined the gym, was wearing new and sexier underclothes, or that she oftentimes ignored his calls and was behaving strangely. If this story sounds all too familiar; you are not alone. There are specific signs to look for if you suspect that your wife might be cheating. According to menstuff.org, 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives, and only 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouse’s extramarital activity. There are many different reasons that women cheat, whether they are seeking attention they feel they don’t get from their spouse, or maybe they are passing a mile stone in their life (promotion, 40th birthday, serious life change), or they believe that their husband has been unfaithful at some point in their marriage. Infidelity can not only destroy a marriage, but also has rippling and damaging effects on children, family, and finances. If you are concerned about infidelity in your own relationship, regardless of the situation, there are things you can do to find out the truth. Through covert surveillance, GPS tracking devices, smart phone spyware software, digital forensics, and civil litigation support, the right private investigator can help you iron out the wrinkles in your life and find out the truth. “A lesser known fact is that those who divorce rarely marry the person with whom they are having the affair” (menstuff.org). TOP SIGNS THAT YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING 1. Detaches herself from your family and friends.rn2. She has a new “friend,” she talks about often.rn3. Priorities have shifted from you significantly.rn4. She lashes out at you whenever she can in an attempt to justify her own actions.rn5. She is oftentimes defensive.rn6. She hides or deletes information from her cell phone or computer.rn7. The sex drops off.rn8. Change in normal behavior and routine.rn9. More concerned with her appearance.rn10. Follow your gut instinct!!