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FREE FROM OTHER PEOPLES’ JUDGEMENTS

Topic: Life LessonsPublished October 4, 2020

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FREE FROM OTHER PEOPLES’ JUDGEMENTSrnJudgment is an opinion. Your opinions of yourself many times are not true. Sometimes your opinion about yourself comes from cultural errors you inherited from your community which were built on poor sense of reasoning. This is to say that your poor sense of judgment sometimes comes as a result of wrong morals you inherited from your community. For instance, if killing of twins are still being practice today you will not see it as evil but as good act because this is what you have seen and believed all through your life. You will see twins as evil omen around you. Twins who managed to survive will always see themselves as societal omen, filled with baggage of inferiority complex.rnToday it is possible that you as an individual don’t still see how right it is for women to head any political and religious organizations in your country. This is the tradition that your subconscious mind had been fed with since birth. Subconscious mind is the part of your soul where repeated actions over and over again will go and got stored; then your actions come from there involuntarily. In my culture, up till this time, men are not allowed to shake women’s hands as a sign of exchange of pleasantries; for they are under men’s authority. If a man comes to a gathering where one man is sitting in the mist of ten women, he will shake the hand of the man and the other ten women will bow down for him to tap them at their back. If he mistakenly shakes their hands, he will go feeling guilty because of his action. The question is, “Why is he feeling guilty? There are no reasonable facts for his feeling guilt over his action other than is a cultural practice that has entered into his subconscious. He is just acting from an internalized erroneous practice. rnTherefore, every man acts and judges from the recorded messages in his subconscious mind without given it a rational thought; because these messages had stayed for years and had formed his personality. These messages range from cultural, religious, political, educational teachings recording in man’s mind since birth. Many of them have no rational backings but we act and judge people from them.rnHaving known the engine house from which peoples’ judgements for or against you are coming from, which many a times are devoid of knowledge, you should now be free! Free yourself because almost all peoples’ judgements for others come from error. rnWhy come from error?rnI. Man judges others actions from his subconscious mind and judges his own action from his conscious mind. Therefore, free yourself from error of others and live a fulfilled life. Have you seen the actions of mobs before? When people hear, “Thief! Thief!! Thief!!!” they don’t reason to know the truth of why “Thief! Thief!! Thief!!!” all you will see are people stoning an innocent person. This is the action of the subconscious mind because it has already recorded the message that death is the lot of a thief. But if he hears that himself or any of his relative were called thief, his conscious mind will come to play a vital role. He will start to reason why, how, when, to who, with who, because it now concerns him. Conscious mind is the part of the mind that reasons. rnOn you own side, if any thought is thrown out from your subconscious mind please, be free and give it a reasonable view before you act and judge. Do not be caged by the traditions of your subconscious mind. Today make it a point of duty to judge all the recorded beliefs in your subconscious mind.rnII. They don’t know you!rnHow ridiculous is it that you will allow someone who doesn’t know the road you are travelling to which only you knew very well to be directing you. No other person knows you except you! Others judgement about you is error prone. In your life affairs only suggestions are allowed. People can guess, feel, and speak what they think is good for you and make suggestions, is good, but you are the only one that knew better. It is left for you to accept or reject. Please, don’t make the mistake of hasty waving of peoples’ suggestions, take your time to weigh them for they may be on point; for knowledge did not start and end with you; for many people have being on earth before you and have travelled the road you are about to travel to. Giving judgement means final verdict How can someone give a final verdict on what he /she does not know, that is madness and accepting the verdict of an ignorant person is madness of the highest order. Until you learn to ignore and be free from people’s judgement, you will amount to nothing in life and your destiny will be at stake. Yes, you can’t stop people from their acts of giving judgements and in trying to taking the ownership of your life, but you can stop them by ignoring their judgements and act from the glorious truths you know about yourself. You know who you are and only you knew it. The light is in you and on no other. If you allow people without the light to direct you, my dear, you are gone forever. You may say, “If I don’t agree with them, they will feel insulted, for they are my parents and my elder. My question to you is this, “What if you agree and lose your God’s giving destiny?” There is a way to get out of people’s tight corner. Sit them down to educate them if they will agree to listen, but if they will not; never allow yourself to be a victim of their ignorance. Joe…”They are my parents; they will stop training me is I did not agree to their judgments on my life career.” What good is it that they are training you on the road to death! Imagine you are called to be a singer because you have the passion and the gift of melodious voice and they are forcing you to go into medical training to become a medical doctor, only with the erroneous motive of being called Papa and Mama Doctor. Don’t you know they are sending you to a land of no return? If you have faith on God and on yourself, even if they fail to train you, there must be a way. God is able to do what you can’t imagine. People’s judgments may be in form of telling you that you are nobody and you will amount to nothing. This may be as a result of the mistakes of your past. It may also be as a result your physical or mental defeats. Let me tell you, god has never said it is over about you. You were created to produce new versions of you every minute of the day. The new versions of you are always available. You are always metamorphosing, that is the law of creation. Your past is not you, you are metamorphosing for better. You don’t even know yourself, you are more than you can imagine! Live in this mind-set and be totally free from the errors of men’s judgments. MANIFESTrnNo one knows you except yourself. All they do is to guess who you are! This means that their judgments about you are in error. For this reason have nothing to do with people’s judgments about you; you are too busy for this kind of distraction!

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