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Seeing Purple: On Pens and Paying Attention

Topic: Self-Esteem and Self ConfidenceFeaturing Maya Talisman FrostPublished September 2, 2004
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It's back-to-school time once again, and purple is IN.n nI'm not talking about fashion trends--though the September issues of mostnmagazines are singing the praises of plum and berry shades. No, I'm referring to the hottest item at Office Depot, Staples, and other school supply meccas. nnPurple pens. nnAccording to a recent article in The Boston Globe, many teachers are giving up their infamous red pens and turning to purple. Although some stalwarts arengripping their crimson felt tips, others are embracing the royal shade in all its jewel tones. nnRed is aggressive. It suggests danger. It makes us stop. A returned assignmentncovered with red corrections is a hallmark of humiliation. If "seeingnred" is a euphemism for rage, seeing red marks is a sign of failure. nnBring on the purple.n nPurple is friendlier. Violet checks aren't as likely to cause cringing. Lavender circles are easier on the eyes. Purple gets your attention without increasing your heart rate, and according to color psychologists, it is therapeutic for those suffering from nervous tension or mental anguish. nnI feel like dancing in the streets in my orchid boots, tossing my lilac beret in the air and twirling my dozen iris scarves. You see, I am known as then"woman who wears purple" and I make it a big part of my work. nnI use purple to make a statement, but I'm borrowing the idea from Alice Walker, author of The Color Purple, who said: "I think it pisses God off if younwalk by the color purple in a field somewhere and don't notice it." nnPurple makes perfect sense as my color of choice. There's nothing woo-woo aboutnit for me. It's not favored by my guru (I don't have one). It isn't aboutnconnecting with my chakras. It happens to be in style this season, but believenme, if I am considered a fashionista, it is purely by accident. nnNo, I use purple as my black because of Alice Walker and chromotherapy. Ifnboysenberry walls stimulate deeper concentration in monks who spend all daynmeditating, it's good enough for me. Besides, I look good in it. nnI hand out custom-ordered purple M&Ms in my workshops as part of a mindfulnessnexercise. I encourage clients to consider grape-colored items as triggers for paying attention. Would red work just as well? Possibly, but it's more glaring. Red reminds us of sirens--and blood. nnRed says "gotta" while purple says "please". Red means business, but purple hints that there's a party down the hall when you're finished. nnCritics of the pen switch say that educators should be more concerned withnteaching skills and less worried about bruising feelings. They say that thosentraditional red pens create tension and that's what motivates students to get itnright next time. nnHmm. Tension doesn't help me learn better.nnI don't like paying bills, but using purple ink to write my checks makes it all a bit more festive. I'm guessing teachers would benefit from the color switch as much as students. nnPurple is the color of mindfulness. I can't think of anything more likely tonprevent mistakes than a friendly reminder to pay attention. Purple pens could turn out to be effective triggers for learning, and at the very least, make those corrections more palatable. nnNow, where's that party?

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Maya Talisman Frost is a mind masseuse offering specialized mindfulness training in Portland, Oregon. She is a former teacher and the mother of four teenage daughters. Her work has inspired thinkers in over 90 countries. To subscribe to her free weekly ezine, the Friday Mind Massage, visit http://mindmasseuse.com

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