Getting around a buffet table
Nothing upsets a diet like an invitation to a swanky and happening buffet party that you just can’t get yourself to say no to.
Buffets are like a black hole – they suck you in without any warning. What starts off as a meal quickly transforms into food frenzy and before you know it, you find yourself going back for seconds and then thirds and before you know it you’ve lost count.
Have no fear! Help is near! I will tell you how to get around that tempting and delicious buffet without feeling like a stuffed turkey. Don’t think it’s possible? Think again!
Tips to get around a buffet table
Face the truth: Before you start, put your pride aside and accept that it is humanely impossible to eat everything on display. All done? Great, proceed to step 2.
Scout the spread: Just like a hunter stalks its prey, take a casual leisurely walk around the table, looking at what the buffet has to offer. Make sure you complete the round, check out the dessert table too. After all, you don’t want to stuff yourself with main course and not leave space for the glorious dessert, do you?
Pick a small plate: In a bigger plate, you may think that you’ve piled on a little too less. A smaller plate, even when piled to the brim will contain lesser food than a huge plate.
Start afresh: Salads salads salads! Consider them your saviour and eat as much salad as you can before you move on to the main course. People who love their meats, don’t lose heart! Most buffet places offer a wide range of chicken and sea food salads as well. Watch the dressing though.
Sing the soup song: Soup is another great way to fill yourself up without consuming too many calories. Of course, if the soup reads “Cream of chicken soup” or “Cream of mushroom soup”, I don’t have to tell you to stay away.
Watch the others: Now that you’ve filled yourself with salads and soups, you can get down to the business of tasting things. Read carefully, I said tasting, not pigging out. Watch what other people are going back for. More often than not, people will go back for the tastiest treats. If you have to pig out, wouldn’t you rather pick the best?
Ration out your portions: Like a drill sergeant. Don’t pile on too much of anything. A smart eater knows that the mantra to eating properly at a buffet is “taste-all-eat-one”.
Gravy business: Chances are if it has gravy, it’s laden with fattening agents. You’re better off with grilled or smoked or baked stuff. Think grilled chicken, baked potatoes and smoked salmon. Besides, most of the gravies taste the same in a buffet, right?
The sweet ending: Admit it, this is the reason you go to buffets in the first place. If you have been good and stayed within your limits with the main course, I guess its okay to indulge a little bit. Keep the portions tiny and you should be good.
A buffet isn’t the most intelligent choice you can make while you are watching your weight but hey, I get it! We all let go once in a while and if we must give in to temptation, the least we can do is be smart about it. So go forth and eat and remember, all you can eat does not translate to all you SHOULD eat.
Further reading
Further Reading
Article
The Hidden Impact of Excess Weight on Menâs Vitality
Carrying excess weight doesnât just affect how you look â it can quietly reduce your energy, confidence, and bedroom performance. When a man gains too much belly fat, it can lead to lower testosterone levels, poor blood circulation, and reduced stamina. These changes may make it harder to maintain strong vitality, control, and endurance when it matters most. The good news? Small lifestyle changes can make a powerful difference. By focusing on better nutrition, regular mov
March 10, 2026
Article
Feel Stronger, Leaner & More Energetic After 40
Are You 40+ And Feelingâ¦rnSlower metabolism? Stubborn belly fat? Low daily energy? Body stiffness or joint pain? Youâre not alone â and youâre NOT âgetting old.â Your body just needs a smarter strategy. Introducing The 40+ Fitness & Wellness ResetrnA simple, realistic system designed specifically for men and women over 40 who want to: â Burn belly fat naturallyrnâ Rebuild lean musclernâ Boost energy levelsrnâ Improve heart healthrnâ Feel confident again
February 18, 2026
Article
The GUIDE to Wellness Reset by Fitness with Essie
Feel tired, inconsistent, or stuck on your fitness journey? This eBook is your gentle reset. rnMany people above 40 notice that weight gain, tiredness, and body weakness no longer respond to the things that worked before. rnThe truth is: the body changes with age, and health routines must change too. rnI recently came across a digital health guide on Selar, created specifically for people 40+, focusing on simple daily habits that fit our lifestyle. rnI shared the details here
February 14, 2026
Article
Moving Meditation: How Precision-Based Exercise Supports Mental and Emotional Growth
Movement is one of the most honest forms of self-connection. The body never lies. It holds stress, records emotion, and reveals when something feels off. For many, this is why exercise has always been more than fitness; itâs therapy through motion. But not all movement heals. Some styles exhaust, others distract. True healing often begins in the slow, intentional kind, the kind that lets the body lead and the mind follow.rnThatâs where precision-based training, such as re
November 6, 2025