HE CHEATED SO WE BROKE UP BUT I STILL LOVE HIM AND I WANT HIM BACK

This must have been a very nasty experience with this particular ex of yours as infidelity is always a major issue in relationships which could lead to not only the end of that relationship but also the end of any form of friendship with the parting couples. rnHowever, despite the errors of your ex, you are willing to look beyond his mistakes for the sake of love and take him back. This is a bold step that shows your maturity at trying to get back what you lost because the feeling is still there. NO MORE LIES The reason for the break up in the first place was because of lies that you couldn’t tolerate anymore. Thus, since you have decided to get him back irrespective of the lies he told, you should be resolute this time to avoid a reoccurrence of what happened in the past. Your ex might become comfortable knowing you still want him back and this can complicate things for you especially if he isn’t remorseful about his hurtful actions. Furthermore, when you eventually make it known to him that you want him back through some of the steps you’ve been given, you must also make it clear to him that you will no longer tolerate his misdemeanours. You must be firm in relating this so as to get him to commit. Taking in the lies and overlooking his infidelity will only make you unhappy and frustrated at the end. He should fight for your respect by being disciplined and keeping to his words. If you can achieve thus, then you can be sure that your ex will take you more seriously, take the relationship more seriously and invest his time, emotions and fidelity into it. KEEP IT REAL Let us face the facts here; he cheated on you and you still want him back in your life. This is a mouthful and it could change a lot of things in your life thus, when taking the plunge back into the relationship, you must ensure that you keep it real this time around. There should be no room for pretence or sentiments this time around as chances are, your ex will go right back to the nasty behaviour if you give him the liberty to continue. Make your intentions and expectations for this new relationship known so he would understand that should he fall short of your expectations there would be no third chance after this second one. Keep your intentions real this time around, you were disappointed before and you shouldn’t fall into the same deceit again thus, keeping it real with him is the solution to having a lasting relationship devoid of rancour. NO INTIMACY Sex is never the ultimate reconciler in a failed relationship. Rushing into sex to ‘fix’ things will only complicate things for you and your ex. Right now, you need to calm things down not heat them up and your ex shouldn’t be granted ‘access’ just yet until you know exactly what his motives are. Most ladies delude themselves into believing that if they grant sex, their ex would become better but this isn’t often the case. Sex should never be used as a weapon to get your ex’s attention, this move will only backfire on you and alter the plans. Keep every aspect of intimacy away from you and ex for now until you are sure of the direction you both are taking. With all of these steps implemented, you can be sure of one thing, your ex would be yours again.