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Help Bring in Your Own Baby
I do believe that you will develop your own ability to communicate directly with your future baby.
I suspect that you are more intuitive than you know.
The things which are most important to you are important to your child also.
The values , the goals, the words , the images when you learn to communicate will be similar to yours.
After all this is why you made this agreement to share a life together.
Whether your experience starts with a few words remembered from a dream, a flash out of the corner of your eyes, or a feeling of someone else being in the room, it will come. I don't think you will have to wait until you are pregnant to experience it. Your baby chose you long ago. You already know each other.
In order to use the Law of Attraction, though, it is not enough to use words and ideas. It is helpful to buy a small item such as booties or a sleeper , just to make it clear to the baby that you are preparing for your future together. Also, journal your thoughts about the baby in a dedicated little notebook daily. Buy or make a card and write a message to the baby. Use candles when meditating. Light attracts guides , angels and positive spirits.
Physical things associated with the baby make it seem closer to you, but you are also showing your preparations to the future baby. Your baby is most likely in your heart chakra, basking in the love energy generated by your heart. You could get a small cloth bag with these small tokens in it, and take ten minutes a day to visualise the baby using all your senses. (You could add baby powder or whatever makes you think of a baby.) Sing to the baby daily.
When you do your daily meditation, imagine the feeling of your baby in your arms. Draw what you think the baby will look like . The more you visualise and creatively imagine , the easier it will be for your body to achieve pregnancy and birth. You are informing your body of your intention to achieve a successful full-term pregnancy. You are also informing the watching baby in your aura that you are preparing for the arrival of your new family member.
It is a form of self-hypnosis, and it does work. Now let’s talk about why hypnosis works.
We tend to believe what we are told over and over. Some women may have taken in the message, ”You will not be a good mother.” Some may believe it because they themselves have experienced abuse. Some people may have repeatedly heard from authority figures, ”You are too old to have a baby .”Some feel tremendous guilt about a termination years before, or even a miscarriage. Some may think the inability to conceive means they did something wrong although they don’t even know what it is.
None of these are helpful beliefs. And they can be overridden rather quickly in hypnosis.
The hypothalamus, just above the brainstem and roughly the size of an almond, controls important aspects of parenting and attachment behaviors, and also both ovulation and implantation. When your body is in fight or flight mode, both of these shut down.
What causes fight or flight mode? Stress. The stress of believing you are infertile is as great as cancer or grief. (Well, of course it is an extreme form of grief.)
But we know that the body heals itself when given rest, proper food, and hope.
For a supposedly infertile couple, being accepted for adoption often releases the stress-and results in pregnancy.
So, hypnosis for fertility is a lot easier than being accepted for adoption.(Spirit babies can choose their adoptive parents, but that is another article.)r
The mother is given meditation-type images to help her relax. Then she is gently told” set down the weight of all those burdens you have been carrying. Let Mother Nature wrap her arms around you, or perhaps you would prefer a warm blanket of universal love. Good?
Now, surrounded by love, realise that you can heal yourself. Let go of the I can’t s, the I shoulds, the judgements . And know that you can heal yourself and let your abundant life-force energy come to the surface.”r
Yes, that’s about it. Sometimes a few sessions are needed as the resistance peels back like the layers of an onion. But even one session can double the success rate of technological procedures. (Although it is true that Spirit Babies prefer the natural way. But that’s another article.)r
Christine Nightingale
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