Help For Your Marriage - Turn it From Ho-Hum to Hot Now!

Jobs, the economy, kids, bills, obligations, family pressures, chores - the list goes on and on. Is it any wonder that you need help for your marriage? Chances are that with all of the responsibilities and pressures you're under, your relationship has slid dangerously close to the bottom of your list of priorities. Now if you don't put on the brakes, your marriage itself may slide off your list completely.rnHere is something that will not only provide help for your marriage but will turn it back from ho-hum to hot. Let's start by playing a variation of the popular game show - The Newlywed Game. Not sure if you want to play? OK, just answer the first question. What's less expensive, a divorce lawyer or a babysitter? Correct! A babysitter is a whole lot cheaper than a divorce lawyer.rnNow are you ready to play? Yes, you may feel a little silly at first but, hey, would you rather feel a little awkwardness or would you rather face a judge someday in a divorce court?rnGood choice!rnNow that we have that out of the way, let's set the stage. You can either bring the babysitter in and you can go to a motel or hotel if you can afford it or you can send the kids off to a friend or relative for the night.rnFirst, turn off the phones, shut the TV, and eliminate any other distractions you may have and head to your bedroom, get on the bed and get comfortable. Each of you gets a stack of blank paper and a marking pen. Read the question, write down your answer and exchange papers. Don't talk. Just silently take note of the answers.rnGot that? OK, let's play.rnQuestion #1 - The thing I like most about you is___ rnQuestion#2 - The thing I like least about you is ___ rnQuestion #3 - The outfit I most like to see you in is ___ rnQuestion #4 - The last time we made love because we both wanted to rather than just appeasing the other person or because "it was that time" was ____ rnQuestion #5 - I think you're the most sexy when ___ rnQuestion #6 - When we're making love, the three things I like best that you do to me are ___ rnQuestion #7 - Out of those three things, when we make love tonight, I really want you to ___rnCongratulations and thank you for playing! Your prize? You've learned a new way to help your marriage. If you played the game honestly, reflected on the answers your partner gave and acted on them, chances are you soon will be ready for other fun and game nights that will also provide help for your marriage. And before you know it, your marriage will once again will newlywed hot.