How Bad Do You want IT?

Man, when I want something really bad, you better not get in my way. I get my focus locked on it like a bull going after the cape. When I’m in this state of mind, I always get my desired end result. Always. Has that been your experience, too? If not, you better read on, because I have the light switch primed and ready for you to turn ON to that thing you want in your business. It’s not the ‘wanting’ that gets me the prize. It’s the decision that I AM WINNING! I plan it, I taste it, and I get excited about it. I plan some more. I take necessary actions, too. The one thing that never, ever, ever works is getting so worked up that I will freak out if I don’t get it. Also known as the manifestation killer called ‘attachment.’ This is where focusing on the essence of what you want is oh-so important. Ask yourself, ‘Why do I want ___________________? What will it ultimately give me? What is the bigger picture?” Then get locked on to the essence. Be unattached to the how and you are golden. Let me tell you a little story. Last year, my business partner, Eva Gregory, was invited to attend a full day mastermind at Jon Assaraf’s (bad a$$ multi-millionaire from The Secret) home with several other powerful peeps in our industry. I was so jealous. I begged her to tell me every little detail when she got home. Being my best gal pal, she did. Now I was salivating. I wanted that experience for myself and was deeply appreciative to live vicariously through her at the moment. This year, I had an opportunity to spend a full day masterminding with Robert G. Allen. I decided the moment I heard it was a possibility that I was INDEED going, even if the reality looked like there was no way in hell that would happen. I have loved Robert for over a decade. His book, One Minute Millionaire, is one of my most referred to books. I love Multiple Streams of Income. I interviewed him on The Jeanna & Eva Show back in the day and loved his authenticity. I wanted him to give me personal feedback on how to grow my business BAD. I moved my calendar around to make sure I was available the day the possible mastermind was scheduled to happen. I told my team that I was going to win my prize. I knew that even if I didn’t get invited through normal channels, I was somehow going to be there. Of course, I got what I wanted. And I get to play with some other very successful mentors that you probably know and love. I’ll give you the low-down on my learning very soon. If I wasn’t invited, my life would not end. I’m very clear that the two mastermind groups I already attend each month are gifts that keep on giving. I wasn’t attached. I got the prize. It’s a fine-line to want something without the fear of not getting it. Trust me, I don’t’ always get what I want. But when I want it bad enough to take a stand and shout, “THIS IS MINE!” life bends over backward to deliver it to me. You have to be bold, dream it, announce it, go the distance, play to win and above all know that you darn well can attract anything you want or need for your business. You have the ability to get the best team members, rockstar clients and software systems available. Even if none of these things look available they are. You have to ask the questions that direct you down a path of winning. “What do I need to do right now to get this thing in motion? Who can help me? What do I need to believe about me? If I were playing to win, how would I play? ” How bad do you want it? It’s worth the personal growth you’ll get in the process. Plus, you’ll have really good stories to share when you’re holding the prize with a big fat smile on your face. BAM!