How Can I Get Over Her Fast? - A Guide To Moving On And Getting Your Confidence Back

Let's get down to the facts. It's over. You hate it, it hurts, it sucks, but it's over. Now, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start feeling like you again. All of your buddies are telling you that you need to just sleep with as many women as possible and forget about her. It's not that easy, and you know it. Here you'll find a fast way to help your heart and head move on. Don't suffer any longer, get reading and start taking steps towards getting your confidence back now.

Some of the worst advice men give each other after a major break up is that in order to feel better you have to sleep around. The opposite is true. Not only will sleeping with other women too early in the game be hard, but, you'll constantly be comparing bad one-night stands to the sex you used to have with your girlfriend. The key is to make your self feel like a strong independent man the healthy way.

There are so many things you probably didn't get the time to do when you were in a relationship. Write a list of all the things you couldn't do or dropped because your girl just wasn't a fan. Then, go through that list and do every single one of them. If you stopped going to the gym, start working out again. Getting fit will not only help you feel and look great, but you'll blow a lot of the frustration and anger you have over the break up. Work is another big hitter. Spend those extra hours pounding out work you were avoiding or pushing to get that raise. Network, spend time with your boss or co-workers and start building up that career you let sit on the bench the last while.

Get rid of any trace of your ex in your space. Not just your place, but in your head, on the Internet and on your phone. Take any of her things that she doesn’t want back and donate them or throw them out. Any pictures of the two you together you don't need anymore. When you find that perfect girl, and she becomes your wife, the last thing you'll care about is the picture of that girl you once had a thing for. Get rid of it.

Also, you probably have your ex's number memorized or in your phone. Don't answer it. Don't text her. You need to take care of you and remember that it's done. Block the number if you need to get over her faster.

The same goes for Facebook. No messaging, delete any couple pictures, change your relationship status now. Go through your music and get rid of your 'song'. Make your space yours again and rearrange your place. Not only will you not be able to associate any of the rooms to memories with her, but it also gives you a brand new fresh-start feeling right away.

Now comes the hard part: follow these rules. You need to be you and the only way you can do that is by getting rid of any trace of your relationship. The sooner you get started and the better you are at following these guidelines the sooner you'll get over her fast.