How Good Is Your Relationship?

If you want to feel really alive, have high energy and mental alertness, you must be comfortable with your sexual connection. It’s 25% of who you are in your relationship! The other three connections which make up the other 75% of your relationship are your soul, mind, and heart connection.

Can you assess how good your relationship is right now?
1. Are you Soulmates?
Does being with your partner make you feel “like you have come home”?
2. Are you Mindmates?
Do you share common values, beliefs and goals?
Do you understand and appreciate your personality differences?
In terms of the overall relationship are you happy with the friendship that you have, the trust, the love?
Are you happy with the honesty of your partner - the amount of communication, the equality of communication- or is there a power struggle?

3. Are you in love from the heart?
Are you happy with the amount of romance - the quality of romance and the balance of who initiates the romance in your relationship?
Are you happy with the feelings, thoughts and experiences that are shared and the fun that you have?

4. Are you sexually fulfilled?
Assess your quantity of sex:

How often do you currently have sex?

How often would you prefer to have sex?
What days of the week, time of day or specific situations do you usually have sex? When would you prefer to have sex?
(Some people are limited to a routine of only having sex on Saturday nights. Some people tell me they’re lucky if they have sex only a few times a year on festive occasions such as Birthdays and Christmas!)r
Next think about the quality of your sex-life:

Is the chemistry fantastic? Are you passionately intimate?
Are you happy with the affectionate touching, the foreplay, the time spent? Is sex sensational? OR could your sex-life do with some sparking up?

SO HOW DO YOU SCORE? ARE YOU IN YOUR IDEAL RELATIONSHIP?

DOES IT MAKE YOU HAPPY?

If the brain is the most important sex organ, the tongue is the most important sex tool – so start talking. Own up to your external stresses and internal resentments. See a sex therapist for good sex strategies or couples counsellor to sort out the relationship. Sex is 25% of the glue for lasting love so it must be reignited if your want your partnership to last.