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How Male and Female Biology affects their Attraction Mechanism

Topic: DatingPublished April 12, 2011

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The way men and women behave when it comes to dating and relationships, is pretty different. In many cases, the behaviour is actually opposite. Even if it's sometimes hard to accept, this is derived directly from the biological differences between the sexes. Why Women are picky and Man always want sex? rnWe all know the biological principle, according to which all species have 1 main goal - to reproduce. rnHowever, every sex (male and female) have a different strategy to maximize their chances of reproduction (i.e - Giving birth). Let's think about it: Women can only give birth once every time. It's also a rather tough decision to get pregnant - It means that the woman will be in a serious danger. And it means that she will need protection for her child for many years after it.rnThink about it: In ancient times, having sex for a woman was an extremely serious and endangering at. That is why women are so picky when having sex with men. It's also the reason why women tend to resist and hasitate so much before sleeping with men. They might not even know this, but they are programmed by evolutional processes that happened thousands and millions of years ago. What about Men? Well, men don't get pregnant. The "Price" of having sex for them is not that big. The more women they will make pregnant, the more children they will have.rnDoes it mean that men are all designed to cheat? Not that simple. In ancient times, if a man wanted to make sure his child would survive, he still needed to stay with the woman to protect her. Having sex and then leaving the woman, meant that the chances of survival for that child would have been pretty law. Why women want strong men and men want virgins rnWomen know the child is theirs. Men can never be sure.rnSo what is the perfect woman that a man would prefer to stay with and protect? A virgin. Only when having sex with a virgin, a man can be sure that the child is really his.rnThat's why men are not attracted to "sluty" women. That is also why that don't take seriously women who have sex quickly. What about women? They are looking for a strong man who can protect them. Strong man means physical power, but it means especially social power. Being the wife of a leader, the king, would have been a great advantage for a woman, maximizing her chances to survive. Does it mean that one night stands are not possible? rnDefinately not! I've had one night stands, and I am sure that you personally know many (men and women) who had them.rnIn our world, when we have condoms and we have the pill, casual sex can be great, easy and bring us lots of pleasure. rnMen naturally want it (or at least, are not supposed to resist too much) and Women want it even more (physicall, I personally believe that women enjoy and like sex more than men).rnThe only problem is the female psychology, that acts primarily in the subconscious mind. You, as a man, need to understand the 2 factors that a woman needs to have sex with you. The first is attraction - What attracts women? Powerful men. Learn the secrets of attracting women. The second is making them comfortable with you - The more a woman knows you, the more she spends time with you, it tells her subconscious mind that you are going to stay and protect her during pregnancy. There is no lying here. She knows no pregnancy is going to happen. She doesn't really need you to stay with her. It's just lying to her subconscious mind.

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