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How To Approach A Woman And Create "Instant Chemistry" With Her

Topic: DatingPublished December 16, 2010

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Over the course of my long career as a dating trainer, I've showed literally hundreds of men how to pick up women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been unbelievably successful. I've seen shy guys who were terrified to try to talk to girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! It's been gratifying to see extremely introverted students of mine, who were formerly too anxious to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, quickly evolve into "approach machines" who were able to meet new girls every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and regularly rack up phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands. But a guy's level of self-confidence can take a significant hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the task of approaching an extremely stunning stunner.I'm talking about walking up to a stunner. A "perfect 10." The kind of woman who makes every dude stop and stare when she walks into the room. So is there a way to enhance your odds of success with this kind of stunner? The answer to this, actually, is not that intricate: you use the same approach techinques that I advise you use with any woman, but after you use one of my "transition" techniques to engage her in the conversation, are going to use two special tactics -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her tremendous beauty won't even be a factor. What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very powerful moves that you should use when you flirt with women. In essence, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons." For now, the short answer is that Teases are playful things you say to girls to "mess with them" a little bit, and plant the idea in their mind that you're NOT intimidated or super-impressed by them. If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not loathsome -- you're treating her as you would treat an old friend -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a sexy woman, in a strategic way, you are showing her that you're not fazed by her attractiveness and you are relating to her as a normal person. This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a stunner. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so terrified of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up! Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really awesome. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level. When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on. So, the interaction will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads. TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic) COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can sense that a lot of people get the wrong idea about you when they first see you. You have this sort of cold exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath." (This Cold Read works especially well with hot females, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their beauty. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and would like to be recognized for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.) It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. When you combine these techniques with other effective conversational strategies, you have the formula for a conversation that will set off all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and where you take it from there is up to you. Click Here - Learn The Secrets of Approach Women

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