How To Approach Girls - Approach Tips

During my years as a dating coach, I have showed thousands of students how to approach women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been incredibly successful. I've seen shy students who were terrified to approach girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new women every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! I have actually seen incredibly shy students of mine, who were formerly scared to talk to women and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach fearless approach experts" who were able to meet new girls on a daily basis (even just shopping at the mall!) and regularly rack up phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands. However, a man's sense of "approach confidence" can really take a hit when he finds himself wanting to walk up and talk to an extraordinarily gorgeous hottie. The kind of girl who makes every dude stop and stare when she enters the room. So is there a way to heighten your odds of strong results with this kind of female?Well, the answer is actually quite straightforward: you're doing to make the most of the exact same approach techniques that I tell my guys to use with any girl, but after you use one of my "transition" tactics to engage her in the conversation, are going to use two powerful strategies -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her tremendous beauty won't even be an issue. So what are Cold Reads and Teases, precisely? Well, they're two very dominant techniques that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons." For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their brains: that you are NOT an ordinary dude who is bowled over and flabbergasted by how hot she is. If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not obnoxious -- you're treating her as you would act towards an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. And so, when you tease a beautiful girl, you're planting the seed in her mind that you are totally comfortable with her. Nothing about her fazes you. This is the opposite of how most men behave around a super hot girl. The typical guy can't even conduct a fun, interesting conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing! Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really powerful. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level. Effectively using a Cold Read makes you seem incredibly perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the stunner. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a hottie at the bar, she's going to nod her head and agree with your "read . So, the approach will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads. Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the subject and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...) COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can tell that a lot of people get the wrong idea about you when they first see you. You have this sort of cold exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath." This Cold Read works exceptionally well with really sexy females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really scorching-hot females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often looking to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, hidden talents, and so on.) Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. If you combine these strategies with other effective conversational strategies, you have the blueprint for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and from that point on, you'll be able to steer this wherever you want it to go. During my years as a dating instructor, I've taught countless of dudes how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. A lot of my students have been exceedingly successful. I've seen shy students who were scared to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new girls every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! It's been rewarding to watch incredibly timid students of mine, who were once scared to talk to females and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach fearless approach experts" who were able to meet new girls on a daily basis (even just walking down the street!) and always score digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night. But a guy's level of confidence can take a significant hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come seeping back in -- when he is faced with the challenge of approaching an exceptionally gorgeous babe.I'm not referring to a woman who is "cute" or "kinda hot." I'm talking about an absolute BEAUTY. You know, the kind of female who, when she walks into a room, causes every guy in the surrounding area to stop and look. What's the most effective way to approach a girl like THAT?The answer to this, actually, is not that complex: you use the same approach tactics that I recommend you use with any woman, but after you use one of my "transition" techniques to engage her in the conversation, are going to use two powerful techinques -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her extreme attractiveness won't even be an issue. So what are Cold Reads and Teases, exactly? Well, they're two very dominant moves that you should use when you flirt with women. In essence, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons." For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their minds: that you are NOT an ordinary dude who is bowled over and taken aback by the way she looks. If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not hateful -- you're treating her as you would treat an old friend -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. And so, when you tease a hot babe, you're planting the seed in her mind that you are totally at ease with her. She doesn't "faze" you. Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude conducts himself when he is talking to a stunning stunner. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so frightened of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up! Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really powerful. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level. Effectively using a Cold Read makes you look incredibly perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the stunner. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a hottie at the bar, she's going to nod her head and agree with your evaluation . So, the interaction will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads. Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the topic and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...) And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most guys get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sensitive, sweet person you truly are." This Cold Read works extremely well with really beautiful females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really hot girls can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often desperate to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, and so on.) It really isn't hard to learn how to approach women. Every time you combine these tactics with other effective conversational strategies, you have the formula for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and where you take it from there is up to you. Over the course of my years as a dating instructor, I have taught thousands of students how to approach women in all types of situations. A lot of my students have been unbelievably successful. I've seen shy guys who were scared to walk up to girls turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new women all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with! I have actually watched extremely introverted students of mine, who were previously too intimidated to talk to hot chicks and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach machines" who were able to meet new women every day (even while simply shopping at the mall!) and continually score phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands. But any guy's confidence can be rocked to its core when he spots an incredibly beautiful babe that he wants to approach and start a conversation with.I'm not referring to a woman who is "cute" or "kinda hot." I'm talking about an absolute BEAUTY. You know, the kind of hottie who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the vicinity to stop and stare. So is there a way to boost up your likelihood of great results with this kind of babe?The answer to this, actually, is not that intricate: you're doing to make the most of the exact same approach methods that I tell my students to use with any female, but after you use one of my "transition" strategies to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage. So what are Cold Reads and Teases, precisely? Well, they're two very dominant moves that you should use when you flirt with women. Fundamentally, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons." For now, the short definition is that Teases are playful things you say to girls to "mess with them" a little bit, and plant the idea in their mind that you're NOT unsettled or super-impressed by them. If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not obnoxious -- you're framing the encounter as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which prompts her to feel the same way with you. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. And so, when you tease a sexy babe, you're implying that you are totally relaxed with her. She doesn't "faze" you. Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the average guy behaves when he is talking to a gorgeous babe. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so scared of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up! Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really powerful. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level. When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on. So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to launch the conversation -- and there are dozens of these in my dating guide for men -- you'll use a Transition strategy to move things onto the right theme. Then, you can employ Teases and Cold Reads: TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic) And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are." This Cold Read works extremely well with really scorching-hot women because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really scorching-hot women can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often desperate to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, etc.) It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach a woman. Every time you merge these tactics with other effective conversational tactics, you have the formula for a conversation that will hit all of her "attraction buttons" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and where you take it from there is up to you.