How To Approach Girls - Five Secrets

The thought of approaching a beautiful girl, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel stressed and intimidated. There are some proven techniques, however, that you can use to make approaching women a fun part of your daily routine. It's very important for you to handle this aspect of your "game" right away, because obviously you're not going to start sleeping with beautiful women -- or dating them -- until you've got the ability to approach them and get things started on the right foot. It's very common for men to fear being rejected by the women they want to approach. This sense of fear is what prevents most guys from even trying to walk up to a beautiful girl in a bar, or at the shopping mall, and initiating a conversation -- but really, this fear can be eliminated with some practice and understanding of the right approach tactics. Let me share with you four keys to approaching women that will help you start meeting new girls on a regular basis: 1. Breathe normal. When men OR women get nervous, the rate of their breathing changes. This will trigger a "chain reaction" of sorts throughout your nervous system, and this is when you experience other symptoms of fear: sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. (All of these indicators of nervousness are a BIG turn-off to women.) When you feel like this, you will not approach beautiful women for anything. Calm yourself down and take deep, controlled breaths if you feel any nervousness -- this will stop that "chain reaction" from occuring, and put you in a relaxed state when you are approaching women. 2. You must also be conscious of your body language -- in particular, you want to walk like an alpha male. How does an alpha male walk? The answer is, with a smooth stride and upright (but relaxed) posture. Basically, you never want to seem like you're in a hurry to meet women or make an impression on them. Maintain eye contact and smile -- never slump your shoulders or look down at your shoes, because this is the opposite of alpha male behavior. Women can immediately sense when a man is confident -- or when he lacks confidence and reeks of desperation! 3. Break the ice with a smile. Really, the best way to "preface" your approach is to lock eyes with her for a moment, smile, and hopefully get her to smile back. If you swap smiles, then you've got a green light to approach her and start the interaction without it feeling weird or awkward. By doing this, you're also making sure that she won't catch her surprise when you approach. 4. Have an opener and not a line. The reason why some guys rely on "pickup lines" is because they don't have anything original to say. You need to learn a variety of openers (some of my personal favorites are Direct Openers, Situational Openers, and Opinion Openers), because once you start applying them -- and experiencing success -- you'll find that approaching women is something you should look forward to every day, not something that should cause you to stress out and feel anxious.