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Yeah sure, money can help you increase your social status and attraction level with the opposite sex. The keyword here is "help"... if you're anything like how I once was, then you find it incredibly easy to make this THE excuse for you're consistent failures with your dating life. I am going to teach you proven systems to attract women like a RICH, POWERFUL man.
How to Attract Women Using Social Status
What is it about wealthy and powerful guys that makes them attractive to women?
Money is the simple answer that comes to mind but what if money isn't freely flowing in your life?
It all comes down to social status.
Simply put, women are attracted to men who have high status.
A lot of men will assume that this means you must be loaded or famous to have high status.
I think anyone can agree that being rich or famous is one way to help get high status, it is not the only way to accomplish this effect. If most of us are not rich or famous, what can you do?
Well, high status is more than just your bank account. There are many different levels of status. For example, here is a few different types of status that ANYONE can attain.
***High Social Status
***Status within a SITUATION
What does this mean? Sure, having tons of cash or multiple movies roles will help you have high social status or higher status within a specific situation, what can you do if you don't have a jillion dollars or your own TV show?
Let's think about it here?
What can you do to obtain higher status?
There are Tons of things you can do. Number one is LEADING the situation.
I can't stress this enough, don't ever be the guy who falls into the scenario of, "What do you want to do tonight?"
"I dunno, what do you wanna do?"
High status means taking charge. High status men are unafraid to make a decision and lead the pack. It doesn't mean being a jerk, it means moving things along. If someone thinks of a good idea, rally everyone behind it. Be the leader, don't be the follower.
Don't be afraid tochange venues and check out different spots within a venue. I'll often be hanging out with a woman at a place and simply move to the other side of the room.
"I wanna hang out over there, let's go!" It's really as simple as that.
What else can you do?
Always be the man who knows what's going on. Be the man who knows about the secrets in your town. Are there cool ghost stories? What's the best new dessert shop? Make sure you know exactly why it's the best. Always know on any given night of the week, what the best bar or club is. Know why. What is a fun story about a time you were there? Local gossip or scandals?
What am I getting at?
You don't need to be rich, incredibly good looking, or famous to be in the loop about what's going on wherever you live.
Think about this, what's more attractive?
Someman who has no idea what to do, what he's done, or what's happening?
Or the man who has multiple ideas of fun things to do on any given day or night of the week? He also has a story to share about the last time he did it and/or is happy to share his excitement about the next time he's going.
For example, for any given day or night of the week I like to know what's going on. Where I live, on the second Tuesday of every month there is and event called The Artwalk. It's FREE, and a lot of fun. rnThere's a ton's of cool art galleries, free wine, and all kinds of gourmet food vendors.
If I'm talking to a woman and she's been there, we can share the excitement and stories we have about it. If she's never been there, I can hype up how fun it is and demand she checks it out with me.
On Sundays there is a cool farmers market I like to go to in my neighborhood and they serve the best coffee.
On Sundays, there's a bar I like that serves free drinks until 10:30.
On Mondays, there's a restaurant I like that has an incredible happy hour special of drinks for $3 and tacos for $1. It's a nice place with a busy and great atmosphere.
I know about a local mansion that has been turned into a city park that hardly anyone knows about. Basically the man that was responsible for bringing electricity to my city donated his estate to the city and turned it into a really cool park up in the hills. It's a really great place with with outstanding views, great history and it cost NOTHING.
Barely anyone knows about this place, on the small chance they do, they don't know the complete story behind it. There was major scandal/murder that happened in the 20's at this park, point being, it's always a cool story to share.
These are just a handful of examples ,of many, things that happen/are happening rnin my backyard and there's stories attached to every day of the week at every place that I can share anytime.
Stuff like this is going on no matter where you live. Find out what's going on, what's happened, and talk about your experiences there.
A high status man GIVES VALUE rather than takes value. Now I don't mean he's handing out $20 dollar bills to everyone he sees. This means he gives a fun, engaging, and rich experience with women when he hangs out with them. Women are able to have fun in the moment, no pressure, no labels, no expectations. Just a solid, great time.
Now let's discuss the next rule.
Hype up EVERYTHING.
Everything you do is amazing and everywhere you go is the coolest place. Status is like laughter, it's contagious.
If you start cracking up, most of the time, other people will begin to laugh as well. If you are super excited and having fun because of whatever is happening, it will likely rub off on her too.
It's an amazing time because you are a HIGH STATUS MAN that is having fun.
Think about this. Within any situation you find yourself in, ask yourself, "Who has the most status here and why?"
A great simple formula is this. Women are attracted to men who have MORE status then they have.
If she's the one who's leading the situation, making all the plans, and everyone is hanging on her every word... . what do you think that means?
It means you are the one TAKING value and not givng value. It means she has to WORK in order to entertain you. It means she is NOT going to be attracted to you.
Be the man and take charge of the situation.
Women love nothing more than getting caught up "in the moment" with a man. rnThings "just happen" you'll often hear as a woman tells a story.
To make things happen, have her get lost in the moment of a high status man... . YOU.
Take a moment to think about your status and what you've learned today. Always ask yourself, "What can I do RIGHT NOW to raise my status?"
Good luck out there!
Ronaldo Gary
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