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How To Get Girls In A Bar To Come Home Back To Your Place - Fast!

Topic: DatingPublished February 7, 2011

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Hi, it's your wingman Dean Cortez and I've got a few quick tips on how to use INFLUENCE and PERSUASION tactics to get girls attracted to you. The other night my buddy Hunter and I hit a nightclub in California. The joint was filled with women, including a lot of young hotties who probably blew off 20 guys a night. As you know, these types of girls will often go out and shoot guys down just for the fun of it. And they NEVER pay for their own drinks, because there is always an endless supply of loser guys who will buy them drinks just to get a moment of their time. But I know how to turn the tables. Hunter and I know specialways to get girls to "lower their force fields," and we have special tactics to get girls who are ordinarily cold to guys who approach them. You've got to TEASE these girls, BUST ON THEM a little bit, and let them know you're NOT an average, common guy who is in desperate for their approval and eager to impress them. So, my Hunter started chatting with a hot little 24-year-old brunette with an oustanding body. She said something funny, and Hunter laughed, and as he took a sip of his drink, he told her... "It's a shame I swore off dating girls like you -- you're funny." Of course, the girl is surprised to hear this -- but Hunter doesn't explain. He switched topics and started talking about his recent snowboarding trip. You could tell that Hunter's comment had knocked her for a loop! She's thinking, "WHAT did he just say? I'm not his type?? But I'm supposed to be EVERY guy's type!!" So one the one hand, she was a little bit pissed off and confused... But on the other hand, you could see that she was even MORE curious about Hunter after he said that! She tossed her hair back and started using really "flirty" body language...because she wanted him to show that he WAS into her. But Hunter didn't give her the validation she wanted. He did the opposite! At one point, he actually handed her his beer and said "hold this for a sec, I gotta make a phone call," and went outside for a few minutes. When he came back, she was standing there looking like a lost puppy, holding his beer, waiting for him...and you KNOW she was thinking, "What's the deal with this guy? He is SO freakin' confident...what's so special about him? How come he doesn't kiss my butt and buy me drinks, like every other guy??" She felt insecure, confused, and VERY CURIOUS to know more about him :) So then Hunter switched it up and used some advanced Mack Tactics to "bond" with her. He said to her with a playful smile, "Y'know, I can tell that because you look a certain way, guys make assumptions about you. I bet most guys never take the time to really know you, and understand what you're about. I get the sense that you're actually a lot deeper and more sensitive than people realize..." So, he pays her this little compliment, which also makes him seem like a thoughtful, perceptive guy. This statement gets her to open up and share about her interests, and her goals, and he engages her on a deeper level that most guys would NEVER try to go to. The "regular" guy, in that situation, would be trying to make awkward small talk instead of PUSHING the conversation forward into the right areas. But when you use a Tactical approach to get girls, it becomes surprisingly easy to make them feel attraction and pick them up.

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