How to Give a Female an Orgasm

The situation with men and women who can really give a female an orgasm is scandalous. If you ask any girl how many good lovers she had in her entire life – she counts them all by the fingers of one hand. This website and series of articles on sexuality have as a goal radical improvement in this area of life.

If you did not know, an average duration of a sexual intercourse among couples who live together longer than one year is about 7(!) minutes.

No wonder that so many women are unsatisfied and infidelity is such widely spread phenomena.

Although main reasons for infidelity are due to negative social programming - we will concentrate here only on (in)ability to give a female an orgasm.

People tend to do the same thing the same way over and over again. For many, there is just ONE method. They learned it long time ago. They think that their One Bulletproof Method of Satisfying Women ALWAYS works. However, women they meet don't want see them again for some mysterious reasons.

Why? Because there is no such a method. Because becoming good love
is an art form. Any art form includes diversity and inspiration. No two women are alike. It's time to learn new things.

Basic rules on how to give a female an orgasm:

Rule #1: TAKE IT SLOW. VERY SLOW

The key is to understand that this is a slow road. Enjoy every second of that ride. Remember that sexual intercourse is a PROCESS, not a destination.

Most men rush to the finish line like a Formula-1 car. Instead, make everything to take up 5 times as much time. Make your sensual touch slide along her back for a whole minute instead of a few short seconds. Apply this rule to ALL your actions.

Rule #2: COMMUNICATE

Make your woman communicate with you. It is not just important. It is CRUCIAL. Many lesbian couples never ask each other even the simplest things including how sensitive their respective clits are.

As a result, each thinks that her partner’s clit is the same as her own and so she proceeds to handle it as such. However, her partner’s clit is too sensitive for that kind of treatment (or as an opposite - not sensitive at all).

At the end, one or both girls imitate an orgasm and later go alone to the shower to complete the process. Simple talk solves this issue within minutes.

Rule #3: LEARN

Learn how female brain and body work. Your woman is not a light switch. She is a volume knob. Her arousal begins long before you start a foreplay.

Her ability (or inability) to have an orgasm today may be influenced by many factors including but not limited to:

* Where is she at her menstrual cycle.

* Issues at work.

* General emotional state.

* Hormones play at her particular age.

Rule #4: TAKE HER PAST INTO ACCOUNT

Her past often has a strong say in the question of how to give a female an orgasm. Psychological traumas, previous boyfriends/girlfriends/one-night stands/teenage experiences often play a significant role.

What do you do here? Be patient. Communicate. Keep learning.

Rule #5: ACHIEVE SEXUAL MASTERY

Learn it FOR REAL. Read, apply, ask for feedback, learn from your mistakes, and apply again.

Spend at least 100 hours in bed with different girls working on various techniques and asking them for feedback. This is how you become an EXCELLENT LOVER.

For beginners, even basics such as not rushing for clitoris in a first two minutes of your foreplay can bring you very far. Know to stay away from erogenous zones for at least half an hour. Build things up.

Rule #6: WATCH FOR SUBTLE SIGNS

Keep your eyes and ears open. Listen to her breath. Watch her subtle moves. When your woman is approaching her climax - she might forget talking to you.

In fact, she forgets the whole world. Let her enjoy the silence if she likes to. Guide yourself by calibrating your actions based on her subtle signals.

Rule #7: SET UP THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT

Make sure the setting is appropriate. She must be able to feel relaxed and excited at the same time. Many will tell you to put on some soft music, burn candles, and dim the lights.

My advice here is to find out what turns HER on. One girlfriend of mine was not able to get an orgasm in any “usual” kind of sphere. Due to her past, she could only fully relax and reach her climax in the shower.

While mastering the art of how to give a female an orgasm - go beyond what mainstream media teaches you. Once you take time to learn those subtle things about your woman – you are on the way to becoming a GREAT LOVER, the rare one. The “keeper.”