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How to Grow Confidence With Women

Topic: DatingPublished February 13, 2011

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If you take a group of men and ask them about their biggest obstacle with women, no doubt most of them will answer: confidence.
In these liens you will discover how I grew my confidence, from the point of having none to becoming greatly confident.
This guide is not about theory, it's about practice.
The subject of confidence is highly important to most men, but it's extremely crucial to women. They simply don't tolerate unconfident guys; to them it's like a contagious disease, they run away from it.
This is the reason why you should focus on developing your confidence with women; you simply can't get a descent woman if you have low confidence.
I'll present three main practical ideas that have helped me tremendously.
The first thing to do is to be daring.
You won't become confident if you aren't bold; you have to take action in all areas of your life.
You must start doing things most weak men won't do. For example, if you don't like karaoke, go ahead and ridicule yourself. I know, it sounds like masochistic thing to do, but by habitually doing the things you fear you will become truly unstoppable.
If you keep living in your comfort zones, you won't grow.
The second thing to do is to be out going.
You can't date women if you stay indoors and you won't grow confidence with women if you stay locked in your house.
Have some days each week for yourself, my advice is to go the first times accompanied with friends, but only for a few times, then you must go alone. This may seem weird, but it will build your confidence to a great degree.
Go to places where women hang around, participate in cooking workshops, learn music, and learn new skills.
You have to be around women alone if you want to become comfortable around them.
The third practical thing to do is to have female friends.
And by female friends I mean attractive female friends, ones most men will die to be around.
How can you have female friends?
It's the easiest thing to do. Women are the friendliest people you can ever get to know, they like people and are in general very open to friendly approaches.
Try the women in your work place, ask them for advice about relationships ideas, women love to help men and especially find a suitable girlfriend for them, use this to your advantage and ask them to introduce you to other women they know.
Most of my friends, when they applied this idea got huge results; two of them are happily married now by the use of this simple technique.
Ask them for their opinions; I don't know a woman who doesn't like giving her opinion, especially if it has to do with relationships and dressing styles.
The techniques I've provided here are guaranteed to work, I've tried them and they've never failed me, you can also read this article I’ve written about how To approach women, it has all the information that you need about some of the most ignored places to meet women by guys.

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