How to help and give - 2nd part

How to help and give - 2nd part Discerning ‘The wisdoms of the Soulrnare the greatest giftsrnfor heart, body and Soul’ Comment Usually we present gifts to express Love or other feelings or emotions that lie in our heart, to those who will receive them.rnThis is why, if possible, we want know their desires and tastes. We give the expression of Love trying to understand what the others might need and the form in which they might like to receive it. In these cases, we are entirely focused on others, their desires and needs. This is true even when we give help, advices, information.rnEven more importantly, we must act like this when we give the wisdom of the Soul. You need to be careful when you speak and when you act, always keeping in mind the following precautions. rnFirst of all, we must be very careful not to interfere in other people’s lives. True help can only be given when someone in need asks for it.rnThen, they will decide what is good for them. We must give absolute freedom of choice to the Souls, even when they do not make the right decisions.rnWe joyfully donate our presence and our Love: these will be the most precious aids in that moment. An answer we provide is never as valuable as something you get to know and experiment yourself. Words and aids are understood according to the evolution and Beliefs of people. Words and aids are accepted according to the choice to grow, the willingness to do anything required by growth. There is always an appropriate moment for anything. Gifts are precious not because of their intrinsic value, but according to the needs of those who receive them.rnIf we give a diamond to someone who is thirsty or starving, we will not help them…rnWater and bread are more precious in that circumstance… We share our Belief with the simplicity of Children, the humbleness of the Sage, without offering it. We bring our Truth and give people the opportunity to appreciate the search for their Truth. We do not impose acceptance, but let our seeds grow in the hearts of those who are ready to hold them. We do not push Love and its expressions, but awaken the desire of loving and being loved. We can talk about the Sky, if we are aware of what Earth needs… We try to speak in the language known to those who are listening. We can show our Divine Essence, if we dare to share our humanity… We can give and help much more as Travellers of the Earth, than Sages of the Sky… Wisdoms often are not enough:rnwhat we need is silence… “… A great deal of balance is needed to donate the Light, to give, to give yourself.rnDo not accept any compromise, but speak in the language known to the ones you meet, so that they will understand you.rnWhen you express what you think it is right, then be careful to confirm your words at any time.rnIf you are in the company of fishermen, speak their language, and give importance to their boats, fishing nets, their catch, their hopes: they will feel you closer to them, even if you are not a fisherman.rnThe only way to get closer to their heart indeed is to give importance to what they consider important.rnSo, when the moment will come, you will be able to offer a different kind of food than what they have, they will understand that they are going to be fed anyway, even if they did not catch all the fish they wanted; so, they will comprehend that food may come not just from the sea or boats, but other sources too.rnThey will be willing to try different food, even when they have their own fish, maybe they will leave their boats for a while and get to know other ways.rnIf you go somewhere else, where there is no sea, you need to speak another language and give importance to that context, to what the locals consider important, their activities, their desires.rnThis in order to get close to them, so that they can open their heart to you.rnNow you realise that a great balance is needed here, even when you act.rnAnd I will say it again: do not accept compromises, this is not about changes, it is about living compassionately. rnThis is the only way for those fishermen to possibly aim for the high mountains one day, the High Peaks, leaving their beloved sea behind.rnBut if you approach and invite them to look at those Peaks and long for them now, they will not understand you or they will feel too distant, too different.rnYour modelling will be the most important teaching, the expression of your Essence will be the greatest confirmation.rnApproach all hearts with humbleness and total compassion.rnYou will see that you will remain your truly self, able to express your Essence, show your Belief, give the things you know.” Question: I feel that Your words are not always clear to me, and someone else may interpret them in a different way. Answer: “Our words bear several meanings that can be progressively understood as you evolve and grow. rnWe all have our experiences, or are living in a particular situation, or carry the content of Previous Lives with us, or we can be affected by something that prevents us from understanding. Someone else may live different situations, or experience a moment of evolution, which facilitates the understanding of the meaning behind Our words.rnPeople are often afraid to comprehend some of the meanings, because they think they will need to change or act in a different way. rnFor all these reasons, be happy when you have the opportunity to spend time with someone: there are always chances for big achievements, new learning, rapid transformations.rnRelate with anyone with Love and gratitude. rnAny time you give, love, help, you can say: – I am grateful to you because you are giving me the opportunity to grow, to raise my awareness, to elevate my Soul.–rnDo not be afraid to share your feelings, your comprehension.rnAsk the ones beside you if they want you to share all this, and do not let anything scare your heart away.rnIf others have different visions, be grateful to them and smile.rnThen, in silence, listen to your heart, listen to your Soul.rnAsk yourself if there is something that may obstruct your vision, or fears that may limit your comprehension.rnAsk Me to help you in this, and be calm, so you will get the right understanding for the moment you are living.” Perceiving the needs Conversation between two hearts « I am sad:rnI know you can help me,rnbut I cannot tell yournwhat I am scared of… » « Do not worry,rnI do not need your words.rnIf we are togetherrnyour heart will tell me everything. » « I feel unhappy:rnmy doorsrnare so shut,rnthat you cannot seernwhat is inside me… » « Never mind,rnI know a fun game:rnI close my eyes and imaginernthat I am entering into you,rnwearing your clothes,rnliving where you live,rndoing the things you do.rnThis way for me it is easier,rnto understand your needs,rnand your feelings. » « I am in pain:rnI’ve just found out that…rnnow I am afraid to rnlet you in… » « Do not worry,rnI am just going to sit here,rnoutside your door:rnI will only come in rnif you invite me. » « What if I will still bernafraid?» «From here…rnI will send you all my Love:rnit comes inrneven when the door is shut… » « What if Irnwill not let you in later?» «I will smile at you…rnand call upon the Skyrnto surround yournwith its luminous rays. » « What if I will call you then?» «I will run to you,rnI will be happy becausernI could wait… » Intuition: « If you wish tornlove intensely,rnyour heartrnwill penetraterneverybody’s heart,rnand fill them with Love. » « If you wish torngive intensely,rnclose your eyes:rnyou will figure out the giftsrnyou should give. » « If you wish to,rnhelp intenselyrnbe silent:rnyour Soulrncan speak the languagernof all Souls. » « If you reallyrnchoose to give yourself,rnwalk in the feetrnof the ones you meet:rnyou will discover their needs. » « Give your mindrna good rest…rnlet your heartrnapproach the heartrnof those you meet… … and follow your Soul:rnlook through her eyes,rnlisten through her Love,rnuse her Wisdom to help. » « Smile at your Angel,rnshake His hand,rnask him to whisper to yournthe things you did not understand,rnto confirmrnthe needs you felt. » How to listen and answer When you listen: « Be fully aware:rnyou are receivingrna ‘secret’ from a Soul. » « Be there:rnlet her know rnthat the only thing yournare focused on in that moment,rnis what that Soul is telling you. » « Smile at her:rnlet her know,rnthat she is thernmost important person for yournin that moment. » « Look through her eyes:rnassure her,rnthat in that moment,rnthe thing you care the mostrnis to share with her » « Touch her hand:rnmake her feel safe » « Caress her:rnmake her feel your love,rnbeyond anything. » « Open your Child heart:rnsee her as a child,rnlove her as a child. » « Perceive her as a Soul:rnwelcome her as a Soul. » « You do not knowrnwhy you are there…rnBe happy:rnit is a meeting between two Souls,rnexchanging presents. » « Keep your mind away:rnwhat your mind knows rnmight limit you… » « Open your heart:rnwelcome everything and everyonernwith Love and Light. » « Be fully aware and breathe:rnrediscover your ‘core’. » « Connect to the Sky:rnrise from Earth. » « Let Love and Lightrninto you. » « Call upon your Angel:rnask for His help,rnto understand the words… » « Listen to:rnthe emotions of your heart,rnthe sensations of your body,rnthe vibrations you get. » « Listen to your Soul:rnshe knowsrnthe ancient wisdom. » « This way, besidesrn words and body expressionsrn you will feel… » « If you perceive somethingrnthat was not expressed:rnlearn with compassion,rnhelp the expressions with Love,rnwait respectfully,rnallow total freedom,rnincluding the liberty of being silent … » « Emotions might block,rnfear might halt,rnneeds might distort,rndesires might expand things. » « Your sense of guilt might conceal things,rnwhat you know might change reality,rnyour mind could interpret,rnhabits could be limits. » « Perhaps,rnthere is a precedent concealed,rna purpose planned,rnan unspoken aim. » Therefore: « The words we say,rnnot always mean what rnwe express. » « What we express,rnmay not be rnthe real thing. » « A fact explained,rnsometimes may not matchrnwhat actually happened. » « Maybe you seernthings in other people:rnthings you want,rnthings you refuse,rna part of yourself… » « Maybe you cannot hear,rnwhat is not spoken…rnor you distortrnwhat has been said…rnyou do not listenrnto what you don’t want to hear… » So: « Unless you are a witness, rnyou do not know the truth. » « If you witness it,rnyou can interpret the reality. » « And even if you could sharernthe deepest end of your heart,rnyour intimate spherernstill may not emerge… » Therefore: « If you perceived rnsomething beyond words,rnthat might not bernabsolutely true,rntotally real. » « If you realisernthat the truth, reality,rnwas hidden from you:rnsmile compassionately. » « If you perceivernthat there is arnnon-luminous intent,rndetach yourself freely,rnprotect yourself with prudence. It could be:rna test to take,rna game to win,rnan obstacle to overcome,rna training session,rna risk to depart from. » Smile anyway: « It is a heart to be understood,rna child to love,rna Soul to help. » « It is a means for your training,rna lesson to be learned,rnan opportunity for growth,rna possibility to welcome,rna gift for your Soul. » Therefore: « Listen with Love,rnwelcome with compassion,rnobserve without interpreting, rnaccept without judging. » « Whatever canrninfluence truth,rninterfere with life,rnof those who speak,rnmay affectrnyour ability to listen,rnmay affectrnyour ability to understand,rnand perceive. » « Each and everyone is free andrnresponsible for what they say,rnfor the way they talk.rnEach and everyone is free andrnresponsible of what they listen to,rnhow they listen. » This is how: « You will know how to listen to the Souls:rnunderstand their words,rnlove them beyond their expressions,rnhelp them beyond their troubles. » When answering: « Be in deep harmonyrnwith those who speak to you.rnBe totally connectedrnwith the Sky. » « Breath Love and Lightrnin and out:rnStick to your core. » « Make sure that your mindrnis still far…rnthat no needs orrndesires are interfering… » « Observe if you are detached,rnif you are only filled withrna desire to love, to help.rnAnd you can ask yourself: – Am I holding a light and free heart?rnAre my wings free? – » « Ask your Angelrnto whisper to yournwhat a given Soul needs,rnin that moment. » « Go beyond your heart:rnlisten to your Soul,rnexpress yourself as a Soul. » « Express yourself with the simplicityrnof children, and ask yourself: – Would a child express himself like this? – » « Express yourself with the clarityrnof a Master of Light, and ask yourself: – Would a Master of Light, rnexpress himself like this? – » « Express yourself rnthrough a few words, and ask yourself: – Would a Sage express himself like this? – » « Express yourself with sweetness,rncare, compassion, and ask yourself: – Would an Angel express himself like this? –» « If you can, look into the eyes,rnkeep contactrnwith her body,rncaress her,rndelicately put your armrnaround her shoulders. » « Before ending the meeting:rnreassure her with faith,rnmotivate her with security,rnexpress your Love to her,rngive her a tender hug,rnassert your friendship to her. » « Be grateful to the Soulrnwho gave you her ‘secret’,rnwho gave yournthe opportunity to lea ‘the art of listening, the art of helping’. » « Walk away with a big smile,rnwith a light heart,rnlet your wings be free… » « Protect the ‘secret’ of that Soul:rngive it to your Angel. » « Keep listening:rnyour Soulrnwill help you understand;rnyour Angelrnwill suggest if and when,rnyou can help that Soul again,rnby giving her a new gift. » « Ask your AngelrnAbout the Souls whornshared with you their ‘secrets’,rnAsk Him to take their hands,rnhelp them, whisper to their heart,rnwhatever they need. » Be careful: « Give your truth, rnbut do not inculcate anything,rnnot even the truthrnthat you know is real. » « For any reason, do not forcernthe doors that you perceive shut:rnyou can still continue your dialogue, rnthrough your gentle eyes,rnyour tender presence,rnby radiating a warm silence. » « Do not contest opinions,rnjust holdrnyour truth.rnDo not discuss things you disagree with,rnjust share your experience with love. » « Do not be influencedrnby anything,rnby what has been said,rnby what has not been said,rnby tears… » Keep in mind: « If someone asks yournfor a suggestionrnon a relationship, in a relationship,rnyou will not be ablernto express your real opinion,rnunless you listenrnto all the interested parties… » « Everyone has their own history,rneveryone has their own visions,rneveryone has their own expressions.rnThe presentrncould be the result of the past… » « Do not think about the absentees…rnthe way they were described by those who are present… » « All that is rnthought, said,rnassumed, planned,rnshall influence people,rnshall intensify what you perceived,rnshall shape the future… » Therefore: « Welcome anythingrna heart bears.rnHelp others freernthemselves from all thingsrncreated by their mind. » « Lead the way towards rncompassion, forgiveness.rnDo anything you can,rnto make room forrnpeace of heart,rncalmness, harmony. » « Protect those who talk to yournand remind themrnthat words can create so much… » « Protect the Soulsrnyou receive information about,rndo not judge. » « Protect yourself,rnwatch your thoughts,rnbe responsible of any word you say. » Comment O Beloved Luminous Soul,rnthese are just some small ‘Seeds’ from the big ‘ears of wheat’ donated by the Angels, on how to behave while talking to others, though now I cannot further elaborate on this topic.rnBased on my experience, I know that any ‘summarisation’ may create fears, make people think that they are unfit for the task, give the sensation of not understanding the whole thing.rnRemain calm, the desire of giving pure Love, Light, help, will allow our Soul to freely guide you step by step.rnLet’s keep our hearts open with faith, to welcome suggestions from our Angels any time.rnNow let’s keep our hands delicately open, to receive more of these small ‘Seeds’. rnAuthor: Satya Extract from the book: 'Helping with Light and Love'rnhttp://www.suonidiluce.com/en/books/books/satya-books-presentation/helping-with-light-and-love/ In addition to these books we have published 22 small-ebook:rnhttp://www.suonidiluce.com/en/books/books/little-e-books/