It's hard to let go of a relationship when you're still in love with your ex. It's common to be constantly thinking of your ex during these times but how can you make your ex miss you and more important, how can you make your ex want you back? Even if your ex is not talking to you or perhaps even completely ignoring you, if there's a will there's a way! But first, let's look at some things you should avoid doing at all cost!
Break up etiquettes:
Don't constantly txt, call, email or message your ex after your break up.
Don't try to get the latest on your ex from mutual friends or relatives.
Don't devise 'accidental' run-ins in hopes of seeing and talking to your ex.
Don't date other people in the hopes of getting your ex jealous.
Don't try to be friends immediately after your break up thinking this will lead to something more.
Why are these important rules to follow? Because they are all tied to a particular mindset and that mindset absolutely screams: 'I want my ex back and I'll do anything to get them back!" This reeks of desperation and your ex can smell it from miles and miles away.
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So what 'should' you do to make your ex miss you and want you back? Here is the break down of the strategy:
Distance yourself emotionally and physically from your ex. This means preparing and implementing no contact. What I mean by preparing is that No Contact is not just something you do a bit here and there. It's a commitment and it IS long-term (at least you should prepare for it to be).
Don't settle for friendship if that's not what you want. Very often ex's will start calling up and wanting to remain friends. This could be out of guilt, out of habit or simply to have you around as Plan B. Do any of these sound that great to you? Settling for friendship means you'll settle for other things and that opens you up for further hurt and lack of respect.
Take this time to focus on your own developments and achievements. You should never settle for what you are or have right now, there's always room for improvement and new things to discover. If you've let your appearances go or you're self-conscious about your appearances, start to do things to make yourself feel good about yourself. Exercise, eat healthy, give yourself a make over and clean house, do the things that make you feel good.
So how will this make your ex miss you and want you back? Your ex is not some robot that's programmed to hate you or ignore you forever. Your ex will miss you if they hear very little from you. That is human nature, we all love to reminisce about the past and your ex will do the same. As soon as they start filling their thoughts of you, it won't be long until they start to contact you. The trick is to be patient. See how to make your ex fall in love with again;
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Every time you're driving down the Interstate, Natalie Cole's "Miss You Like Crazy" comes on the radio and it gives you inspiration. We urge you to take our advice on making an ex miss you like crazy because we're cooler than Natalie.
Step 1: You Don't Miss The Dentist: You've got to give your ex a reason to miss you. You already may have screwed up in the relationship but if you fine-tune your personality now, the things they truly missed will come to light.
Step 2: Not Being The Shadow: How can your ex miss you if you're constantly hovering over them? Not only will this suffocation push them farther away, it'll make you seem less desirable as if you can't do anything without your ex in your life.
Step 3: Drive Them Wild: A great way to make your ex miss you like crazy is to drive them bonkers. This might mean getting more attractive or simply staying far away from them. Basically, if you do what they don't expect you to, they'll go nuts.
Step 4: Ex The Hex: You might be thinking of your ex in a negative light and those unhealthy thoughts will manifest themselves. If you do a wipe down and say "they're my ex, no big deal" then you'll notice a cooler and more laid back approach to your everyday tasks...and they'll find out too.
Step 5: Who's That Person: You want your ex to say "Who's that" and it could mean by changing your looks or by being seen with somebody else. To drive your ex wild you need to show them that your life is still your life, with or without them as a part of it.
Step 6: Do Your Things Without Them: There are certain things your ex misses about you, even though you're broken up. If you routinely attended an annual festival together, keep going even though they're not with you. Your ex will miss going with you and will remember that not every date ended in hair pulling and a barrage of insults.
Step 7: Keep Them Single: This is a tough task but in order for your ex to miss you, try and keep them single. If somebody has a new loving person in their life, they might easily forget about their last one so your best chance is to both stay on the single block. Hopefully the missing will soon lead into the kissing. Find out how to make your ex come crawling back to you,
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In the process of holidaying or bringing in a change in your appearance and also giving time to your new found activities remember to remain out of contact for a while. As long as you are busy with all this, do not answer your ex's calls if any.
Now when you're thoroughly satisfied with your reformed self, then prepare to present your self to be seen by your ex. When they see you so unexpectedly they will be taken aback and overwhelmed to see how wonderfully changed you look. You'll find them approach you to find out how you're doing and the reason of your absence.
Certainly be friendly though cordial and polite. Show that you are happy to see them but don't show too much enthusiasm. They should come out with the declaration that they have missed you and are happy to see you around. Let them approach you with wanting to meet up with you.
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