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***How To Meet Women

Topic: Men's PsychologyFeaturing Paul Dobransky, M.D.Published Recently added

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How to meet women is a different subject than where to meet women, and WHETHER you will meet women at all. Do you have particular goals with women? Or in the skill to meet them? Do you know what you even want in a woman? Or in what you will share with her? Do you want casual dating? Or a serious girlfriend?

You need to answer these sorts of questions before you even begin to address the topic.

The exact methods, strategies and tactics will become clear to you when you answer these questions, and I explain every possible detail in the Omega Male Program.

Regardless of who you are or where you live, some things are very clear:

1. You will need to not betray yourself, and so stack statistics in your FAVOR.

2. You will not be fooling anyone to try to hide the fact that you want to sleep with them.

3. You will need to be fun, friendly, and not overly serious at first…

4. While demonstrating or at least strongly hinting that in the long term, you are stable, strong, reliable, protective, competent, and durable.

5. And you will need to start the interaction, lead the interaction, and even make sure that at some point you do test and secure the welcome of touching her.

So many guys ignore the obvious about meeting women – that the bar you go to which has all guys in it is not the place to be, that you can somehow get into her pants unnoticed, without ever being suspected of being a sexual being with desires and intentions of a romantic nature, that it is okay and will be successful if you go out socializing exhausted, depressed, fearful or overburdened with stresses, or that women of quality are somehow interested in sex only, and not knowing you as a friend, a special benefit to her life, or long term possibility.

They even think they can meet women without the willingness to dare to touch – even if that means merely shaking her hand.

Meeting women is easy when you go easy on yourself, accept who you are, and work on what you want to become – a guy who likes himself, has a sense of humor, a lack of shame about sex, and skill at starting and leading social connections.

Give them an excuse to introduce themselves to YOU, a reason to start talking and keep talking to you, and evidence that they are safe and respected.

Have something interesting to say at all times, and wear an item of clothing that is unusual and calls just the right amount of attention to yourself.

Have a reason to be in the venue that benefits your mind, your work, or your life, generally, and then she doesn’t think of you as a guy whose whole life centers around the next “score,” or any other immediate gratification.

There is a great deal of power in learning that there are four types of women – the Queen, the Warrior, the Magician and the Lover. These personality traits automatically tell you what to do and say – because as in the KWML Mastery Course, you lean how to appeal to each of these four kinds of women.

Only ONE will be of greatest value to you – the woman who is success-minded – but not to the elimination of your own pride in career. And the woman whose personality style is the opposite of your own.

In this arrangement, men and women have reason to believe that there really is someone meant for you and only you.

It all starts with knowing your KWML personality style, and using it to speak to her in an emotional language which is her best feature.

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