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How to Meet Your Compatible Soul Mate

Topic: LovePublished November 23, 2012

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Meeting your soul mate isn’t hard. All right, yes it is. It’s hard because finding a soul mate has nothing to do with how good you look, dating services, blind dates, what you wear, how much money you earn or how sexy you are. Relationships Reveal Yes, the feelings of love and the experience of sex are great but the result of two multi-layered, physical, mental and emotional beings coming together, cohabiting and connecting causes deeper layers of the unconscious self to arise. It is the lack of self-awareness and the ability to navigate what rises within us that prevents a compatible enriching soul mate from finding us. Relationships require us to give of our entire being. Our entire being contains all the light and dark that exists within us. Oftentimes, it requires interaction in a relationship to reveal the darkness within us. The question is what do you do once the darkness rises. The Key is Self-Knowledge Self knowledge is based on: 1) A dedication to living and recognizing truth as an expression of love
2) Knowing what our needs are
3) How to articulate those needs
4) The life-long skill of letting go of what doesn’t matter. Know Why You Want a Relationship The question is: what are the authentic reasons behind your desire for a relationship. If it is to avoid self-responsibility then a compatible enriching soul mate will feel this and walk away. Instead, you will attract a different kind of soul mate that will reflect “avoiding responsibility,” resulting in a lot of unhappiness as you continue struggling with the darkness inside of you. Practice Being a Soul Mate Attractor If you really want to find a life partner, stop looking. Instead, devote yourself to practicing:rn1. Clearing out your darkness through deepening your self-understanding.rn2. Expressing your truth and speaking from a place of love for others and yourself.rn3. Honoring your needs.rn4. Unconditional self-acceptance.rn5. Creating a new relationship to relationships that serves your soul. All of this transforms you into a compatible soul mate attractor who will reflect your truth, love, tolerance and acceptance to those that you meet. One day, you will be walking somewhere or doing something and they will just show up. You are destined to meet them, if you believe it. In the meantime, keep the faith, always come from love and do your work so you will know them when they appear.

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